That all said..... I have been weighing this recently.
DH & I discussed this & decided I should NOT be a surro (mainly for health issues, difficuly PGs, 1 previous c-sect., but also for stress & family reasons)
After reading this thread though, I realise I also could not go through with it, unless it was someone close to me (a sister) and I could share in the responsibility & be a part of the child's 'village' so to speak.
We are however still...