I'm in a slightly different situation, as I'm on the spectrum myself. My daughter and I are diagnosed with High Functioning Autism, and my son with Asperger's. I never noticed anything, as I hadn't been diagnosed when the kids were born....
How big of a town are you in? Maybe La leche league has a local chapter that could help you find likeminded mamas. At the least, the nearest hospital should be able to refer you to a lactation consultant, and they are usually pretty...
Oh! That's such an awesome age! I miss that age! Mine are 14 and 12 now. The balance is a little less fun and a little more handful at this age, but the oldest is coming out of it, so I have hope. Lol
I won't risk the liability of recommending for or against, but this is exactly what I did with both of my children. This kind of thing is a highly personal decision. If you do decide to go this route, I suggest posting in the finding...
I have a bit but I'm not much help with start-up info. I lived for about a year on a farm that had old hive boxes that had been unattended for years. An old friend helped me clean them up and upkeep them. It was an incredible experience...