Posts by ombra*luna

Immensely. Becoming a parent was the biggest catalyst to change my life to living much more consciously. For some reason, having them cared for properly is a top proiority for me, and taking care of myself is less so (although I...

check your pm's - I sent you one, but I'm not sure if you got it.

Good idea bringing a co-worker. I think that's what the pp meant by a "legal doula" - having someone there whose job is to support you, as a doula would at a birth.

Quote: Originally Posted by rmcarons But the problem is, just because his intentions are good doesn't mean he behaves well. Just because he harms his child in the guise of discipline doesn't mean he doesn't love the...

Quote: Originally Posted by artgoddess Please, Please, Please do not even further the idea of banning Racism from discussion at a mothering community. Please, please do not even consider the idea of banning...

Well. I've done about 33 big birthday parties for my kids at this point. We do it every year, for every kid. The last couple of years, my older son has been keeping it more low-key, just having 3 or 4 friends for a sleepover and a...

You must be feeling so overwhelmed right now. I'm sorry you're dealing with this difficulty, I'm so glad it didn't happen when you and the kids were sleeping inside there, though. It must be so hard for you all.

Quote: Originally Posted by mmace My son had a CAT scan when he was three, but it was for medical reasons, not as an attempt to identify learning disabilities. She said it so much more politely than I...

Hmmmmmm. How long have you been with your husband? How long did you know him before that? Is there any possibility, any possibility at all in the world, that she might have a reason to be angry with him, and for her friends to...

She is very fortunate to have you in her life. You are so strong, and you are using your strength to help her. Thank you for taking care of her in this way. Even though some things will be out of your control, you are showing her...