Posts by IdentityCrisisMama

Quote: Originally Posted by Complexnatural  Thanks for the welcome!  I agree that I parented the way I did because I could not parent any other way.  It felt right to me and with every fibre of my being I...

I think this is a great discussion and, Pek, I don't think anyone is trying to disrespect the choice to AP. Pride is a funny thing as a parent and while it's fine for those who process that in a healthy way (like you), others may not...

Quote: Originally Posted by LeighPF  Thanks ww. My midwife delivered at my transfer hospital for a decade so they give her very smooth transitions. So I am not worried, just need to have plans.   This is really...

Ok, I have reopened this thread. I have removed several posts that either do not contribute to a comfortable atmosphere or included name calling. Please check your PM box to see if any changes in posting behavior have been requested of...

Solovedsohappy, I would start another thread for your question so that you get more visibility. Consider posting in the "Finding Your Tribe" section for where you live. Good luck finding a birth center that you like! And, welcome to...

EBM, MD has not recognized the CPM for some time (the may never have?) but there were CPMs working here and with CNMs HB was accessible up until about 2 years ago when two prominent midwives stopped practicing. At this point, it is...

I think the place to start is with your MW - she will know if she can bill Medicare and, if not, may have some solutions for you. Another thing to do is to ask around if there are any other MWs who do take Medicare. 

Quote: Originally Posted by ronart  As for the good mom praise I respect your feelings but struggle understanding them.    Some other members have described what I mean as well (see Linda on the...

With my two, I treated hitting and biting pretty strongly - figuring I was super relaxed about most things, tried to say "yes" to most things and etc. and a big part of that is so I could reserve strong reactions for things that meant...

Re: "spoiled".  I wonder if that is more of a mindset thing. I think a person who is able to really think of the things they are given may well describe themselves as being "spoiled" when, in fact, they have a good balance in...