I'd expect more from a teenage mother's helper. She doesn't sound good at all, much less wonderful. Did she have references? Did you check them? Oh, and an over emotional 3 year old is a normal 3 year old. In my DD's 3's preschool class children weren't left to be upset for any amount of time. The teacher was awesome, but she also had alot more kids than just two. Your nanny doesn't sound like she knows what she's doing.
5/26/11 at 11:10pm