The normal age for retraction is about 10 years old or later. Also steroids are for teens or adults with retraction problems. Your 4 year old is normal. No one should try to loosen his foreskin except himself. The doctors are unfamiliar with proper intact care. You might want to cross post in this http://www.mothering.com/community/forum/list/44/the-case-against-circumcision forum. The moms there are very informed.
5/16/11 at 8:05pm