I just don't ask. If they circ'ed, I really don't want to know, and often I end up finding out anyway One friend had some pictures of her baby boy in his bassinet at the hospital, and the circ care brochure was right by his head. Another joked about her son's circ on her blog. (Tasteless...sigh...) If they didn't (which hasn't happened yet, but maybe one day) I would think they'd say something, especially if I was involved in helping them learn about it.
2/8/08 at 1:34am