Lol 30 is the new 20, isnt that the truth?!
Thanks so much for all the warm welcomes, I can not tell you have much it helps to have some one out there that understands. I dont have any pg friends irl, all of my girlfriends either dont have children, or thier children are older.
lilflower, UC stands for Unassisted Childbirth, as in a homebirth with no medical attendant;-)