I thought I was over. My husband didn't want to be over. He has wanted another for years. On my end, it was a "Well, if we are going to do this, then it better happen soon" but I wasn't trying at the same time. I didn't expect it really, but obviously with 2 Leos and a Virgo, Nov/Dec are our fertile time.
Most of my friends have 1 child, maybe 2. Some are not parents by their own choices. I do have a few friends with 3-4 but not many at all.