Hi Catt, I'm sorry things feel so hard right now. About the birthday cake, she is too young to know any different and there are lots of creative things you can do that will look cute in pictures. Last year, for my own birthday, I had a watermelon "cake" -- a watermelon cut in half, with candles in it. It looked pretty and colorful and I still got to blow out candles.
3/11/09 at 5:13pm