Posts by Theia

Quote: Originally Posted by Super~Single~Mama  :hug   I know its tough, and on the one hand you want ds to be close to you - IF your stbx decides to actually take your ds overnight, please use it as...

REI has childrens Bogs on sale again.  They still aren't cheap, but if you are looking for this kind of boot, it's better to get it on sale than to pay full price.    http://www.rei.com/product/774779

Quote: Originally Posted by karne  Another vote for Bogs.  In our house Bogs are 3 season boots.    They really are warm enough for the very cold, snowy weather.  They also clean up pretty well,...

You were in a relationship with him for a long time.  There doesn't have to be a time limit on grief and loss.  If you feel that you need help, do seek counseling.   

I am so sorry.  That must be difficult.  It's not fair at all, I totally get that.  But, you will get through this.  Don't add future worries into the mix of what you are already dealing with everyday.  

I take an SSRI for depression/PMDD and benzo's for sleep and PRN when my PTSD is really triggered.  I'm also an insomniac. The meds for sleep and depression are daily, but the PRN is not nearly that frequent.  But I am...

Juise, If you are getting as many calls as that, you should be able to subpoena your phone records.  Not to worry you, but that could be considered harassment.  Regardless of if the caller ID is blocked, unknown, or private,...

Is there any way you could get some sort of documentation from the doctors that would state your ex's decision to no longer pay for DD's services that you could use in court against him?  I'm so sorry, this guy never stops. :hug

Oh, and your original question... the grounds for RO or OOP.... Check out this link for some good information that you can get for your specific state.   http://www.womenslaw.org/index.php

If you are married, he has as much right to take the children as you do, unless there is some sort of court order.  Not saying that I'm siding with him, just what the law is AFAIK.  Even if you aren't married, if he is listed...