Originally Posted by TCMoulton
But isn't that exactly what you are doing with you SIL - judging her without knowing what is going on in her life to make her act that way?
My 1st DD was in the NICU for the...
Originally Posted by RomanCarmelMom
It sounds to me like she hasn't bonded with the baby. It also sounds like PPD to me as well. I had it, and still have it over 2 years later. If I were you, I would call to...
Originally Posted by ChetMC
Is this her first? I didn't have any particular desire to hold our first DD. I'd nurse her, and it was okay, but after it was over my first thought was "crap, I'm going to have...
Originally Posted by pauletoy
If it is PPD and it sounds like it is, she needs support from family not judgement.
Sorry if this sounds harsh. JMHO
Yes. I realize that.
Did we somehow establish that...
oh man. i know those feelings too.
please don't beat yourself up. i know it's easier said than done sometimes.
the hardest for me is when i've made really stupid mistakes. like setting my ds too close to the edge of the bed &...