We had our ultrasound today, and everything is perfect. The doc said he has a "good looking brain, beautiful kidneys, beautiful spine, nice strong heart." He's measuring great- long arms and legs, 13 oz. He said that it's a "textbook pregnancy" from his POV.
So that's good!!! I feel like I can move forward now.
We didn't find out the gender- the ultrasound tech wrote it on a piece of paper and sealed it in an envelope and gave it to us....