Posts by Phoenix~Mama

No thanks is typically the best answer, and if they aren't mature enough to respect that and walk away.  Um, run!  lol  Obviously they aren't right in the head and have anger issues, etc.   You have every right...

*hugs*   It will be okay, as you already know.   I actually never had those thoughts with my own UAV ex, but I know others have had similiar feelings to what you have.   The thing is most people do not...

Hi!  My friend's sister is newly pregnant and they have asked me to help them with gathering information.  I don't want to push views on her, but just equip her with as much good info for her to make her own...

I have to ditto MamaJen and Alenushka.  I've been out of my abusive marriage for over two years now and I want you to know you will get through this.  Things will be figured out.  I always came up with reasons why things...

Found this on some of my searching today. How awesome and progressive is this that some schools offer a special help program for single moms?!  FAR too few on this list... but it's a start,...

Where does one begin to research what kind of aide they could qualify for? Start at the school you are attending?

I'm researching some options and I'd really love any advice/knowledge from people who make it work by being full time students. Did you get a lot of grants? How do you cover all of your COL? Do you have your own apartment? Does your...

Nothing will make the situation better but being away from it and giving yourself space and time to heal. *hugs*   I had my only romantic relationship since my divorce end 9 months ago. It's hard. But something better is out...

Is he on medication?     I'm so sorry Mama. *hugs*  It really sucks when a relationship ends, especially one with kids.   I say this as gently as possible, but from an outsider view, it does appear that he...

Quote: Originally Posted by hillymum  Have you explained to ex how his actions are afecting your dd? Thye old guilt trip? One way I tackle it with sbx is to say I already have plans I am commited to, so will not be...