In the friendliest way possible, I would like to say that I am a bit like your neighbor. I don't care about how long the grass around my house is, in fact I like it long and full of wildflowers, like a meadow.
I wouldn't have dog poop or a shopping cart in my yard, but if I did I would expect people to look the other way.
Finally, not everyone is social. I avoid neighbors like the plague because I just plain don't have room for them in my life. I try to avoid...