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post #1 of 24
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Things in our household have not been good, financially. My DH lost his job the day after we had our son, one month ago. He has since got another job, with less hours and about 40% less then what he was making. Before he lost his job, we still weren't in that good of shape, just living paycheck to paycheck, with no savings. Now we are really hurting. I do know that everything happens for a reason and I'm sure this is the case here as well.

Anyways, my DH and I stayed up all night last night just talking about where we want to end up and how we are going to try and accomplish this. My husband is an avid skydiver. It is his passion. The skydiving drop zone is an hour away from our current home, in Longmont. Finances have been a huge obstacle in that he hasn't been able to go for over a year now. He dreams of opening his own drop zone one day.

We are living in an 2 bedroom apartment, I don't like to admit, that is too much for us to take on. Our rent is $1100 a month (I wish we could buy a house instead!). We started looking around last night in Longmont and we will be able to get a 3 bedroom apartment for about $800 a month, $300 less then here!

Now here are the things that we are factoring into our decision. In our current home his parents are a 2 min drive away. My mother is 4 mins away. His work is a 2 min drive away.

If we move to Longmont we will be an hour away from family. He can transfer his position to the store in Longmont and that will be a 5 min drive from the new place. We will be right across the street from the airport and he could walk to the drop zone and eventually make a bit of extra money on the side packing parachutes. I can still go to the local community college to get my CNA and then get my Associates in Nursing. Once we can afford a house they are in our price range here. The schools are also good.

The more I think and research everything the more I think it is a good idea. We have about $8k in debt. With us saving $300 a month on rent we could get that paid off. Then we would be saving around $700 a month once that is paid off. We would then be (FINALLY!) living within our means.

We don't want to live extravagant lives. We just want to be free and secure! I think that ultimately this move would be a wonderful thing for us.

So, I guess I'm posting this to hear what you Wise women think? What other things would you look into before deciding to move? Any advice?
post #2 of 24
If I was only moving an hour or so away from family, I probably would move to a lower cost of living area. Would your family still be available to babysit and just come over to hang out or would they think the drive was too long?
post #3 of 24
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If I was only moving an hour or so away from family, I probably would move to a lower cost of living area. Would your family still be available to babysit and just come over to hang out or would they think the drive was too long?
I'm guessing not. My mother doesn't really baby sit now all that often, it is just nice having her near. We would just have to plan our visits more now with us being further way.
post #4 of 24
Eh, I'd do it if your DH can definitely transfer jobs. Do you have a lease?
post #5 of 24
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Eh, I'd do it if your DH can definitely transfer jobs. Do you have a lease?
Yes we do. We can get out of it once they re lease it. We have to be vacated for them to do that. We were talking with my mother this evening about possibly staying there until that is possible, because we can't pay both.
post #6 of 24
If you can get out of your lease or move when it's up, I'd give it a try. You can always stay there for a year and if you change your mind, move again.

I lived in CO my whole life, my parents first home was in Longmont as was my sisters when she married. They really love the town, I never really did get why and was happy in the Denver area. That said, it really is not that long of a drive for visiting in either direction so you could go see family and they could come up to spend time with you. It sounds like it might be a good fit for your needs.
post #7 of 24
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If you can get out of your lease or move when it's up, I'd give it a try. You can always stay there for a year and if you change your mind, move again.

I lived in CO my whole life, my parents first home was in Longmont as was my sisters when she married. They really love the town, I never really did get why and was happy in the Denver area. That said, it really is not that long of a drive for visiting in either direction so you could go see family and they could come up to spend time with you. It sounds like it might be a good fit for your needs.
I love it there! You can see the Mt's not just the foothills like in Littleton and there is farm land and open space! Once I become a CNM I really would love to open up a Birth Center near there. Right now everybody has to travel to Mt. Midwifery all the way in Littleton/Denver. My dream...
post #8 of 24
Right now I'd do a lot to get out of debt so that is a vote for yes.

I lived in Boulder for a year and would do anything to get back to the mountains. ::
post #9 of 24
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I love it there! You can see the Mt's not just the foothills like in Littleton and there is farm land and open space! Once I become a CNM I really would love to open up a Birth Center near there. Right now everybody has to travel to Mt. Midwifery all the way in Littleton/Denver. My dream...

well see, I think you answered your own question then. You love it and it goes along with your dream. Maybe that's part of the everything happens for a reason like you were saying.

oh and I didn't mean anything bad about Longmont in my post, I just didn't fall in love with it or anything when I'd visit my sister.
post #10 of 24
I'd move. An hour is not that far. Where I grew up we'd travel 3 hours to the city for a day trip.
post #11 of 24
Another vote for do it.
post #12 of 24
You actually sound excited by it so I would do it. You can lower your rent by $300 which is great and now that the gas prices are coming down, you can visit your family twice a month for probably less than $30 a month total. I'd do it! My communte to work is about that in traffic!
post #13 of 24
Do it.
post #14 of 24
Do it.
post #15 of 24
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Originally Posted by Crunchy Doula View Post
We are living in an 2 bedroom apartment, I don't like to admit, that is too much for us to take on. Our rent is $1100 a month (I wish we could buy a house instead!). We started looking around last night in Longmont and we will be able to get a 3 bedroom apartment for about $800 a month, $300 less then here!
FWIW, you're paying in rent only 50 dollar less than what DH and I are paying on a 15-year loan mortgage. We got in before housing prices hiked, but even assuming that cost of living is higher in your area, I'll bet you could be putting (even less than) that rent money into a 30-year loan on a modest home. It's winter time in a lousy housing market, so you could low-ball on an offer. Just some thoughts.

It sounds like your one compelling reason for staying where you are is the proximity to parents. We live 5 hours away from IL's and 10 hours from my parents. The free baby-sitting available to you is definitely not something to take for granted, and I'd make sure to have some firm and affordable child care plans in mind before you decide to move.

Apart from that, however, moving sounds like a good idea for both you and your DP to advance in your careers and economic well-being. Good luck with your decision.
post #16 of 24
I would do it, it seems to make sense.

Best of luck in your decision.
post #17 of 24
It sounds like a great opportunity, so if I were you I would totally do it!!!

As for being an hour from family- it's really not that bad- for several years my mom was about an hour and fifteen minutes from us, and it was still really easy to plan visits. My IL's currently live an hour from us and we see them almost every week. Being an hour away has never gotten in the way of seeing each other often and feeling really close, it just takes a bit more planning than living in the same town.
post #18 of 24
I would do it. But, our family is 5+ hours away, so 1 hour seems closer for us than it might for you.
post #19 of 24
We are in the process of moving 10 minutes from my brother and his family to a little over an hour away. The compromise is worth it to us because of better schools. I will miss seeing him and his kids all the time, but just need to make the effort to keep them close in our lives.

(we are 45 minutes from a decent sized town now to just grocery shop so traveling an hour to see family really isn't that bad)

Something we are planning on doing is keeping our cell phone which is a local number for him, it may end up costing us a little more if we make loads of calls to #'s in the new city, but most likely not because we don't use all our minutes now... I guess what I'm saying check about phone services and figure out something that does not eat up a big chunck of your housing savings.

My hubby will still have to travel for work, but he works construction and it's not feasable to live where he works because that changes all the time when the job is done... so no getting around that no matter where we live.

(my ultimate dream would be to be a fire-fighter that sky dives in and helps to fight the fire from the inside out.... I know my body is in no shape to become a fire fighter and I don't know if I would actually have the courage to jump from a plane... maybe one day I'll be brave enough to jump though...)
post #20 of 24
go for it!
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