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Originally posted by seedgirl cool! but why a prescription for formula? |
I agree. I understand that breastfeeding is best, ideal, and I completely believe everyone should give it a try.
I do NOT believe that every woman can breastfeed. I know I couldn't. I had all the classes, books, supportive family, lactation consultants, herbal supplements, biofeedback equipment, home nurses, LLL, supportive doctors, etc ad nauseum, but I still couldn't do it. My breasts just forgot the "every woman can breastfeed" part and didn't make milk. I was eating enough calories, drinking enough water and milk myself.... Of course I believed the "you can't tell how much milk is there with a pump" and all those other things too, and trusted all the lactation "experts" instead of my motherly instincts until I went to DS's 3 week check up and he still hand't regained his birthweight. I wanted to kill myself for believing the "they aren't hungry for a while anyway" that everyone had been feeding me. This is after 3 weeks of me spending literally 45 minutes of every hour of every day for 3 weeks nursing, and the off 15 minutes pumping to stimulate production. He had a great latch, he was hungry, I was doing everything I could, but my body was not cooperating.
I am very grateful that the one place I didn't have to battle over it with was WIC, when my beautiful 9 lb, 9 oz baby needed food that I couldn't give him, no matter how badly I wanted to. You can imagine the kind of crap, glaring looks, and statmentst of disapproval from my wonderful "supportive" family, friends, and medical professionals when I started giving my son formula.
In dealing with all this and the subsequent post partum depression, the LAST thing I would have needed was to go to my pro-BF doctor and beg for a script to feed my baby. WIC was a lifesaver for me that year. I had planned to nurse my whole life and with my DH working graveyards and in grad school during the day, there was no way we could have afforded to budget the $150/month for formula.
A better way is to give more education and support, work to making it more mainstream, but why alienate women the way us pro-BF-ers have been alienated in the past? And what about single dads? They can still get WIC.