Ok, new drama. Dss likes to go to his moms, but he doesn't like to stay there. She's never forced him to stay, which we like so we haven't moved to change the schedule. This week everything has changed. She's telling him that if he doesn't stay with her when he is supposed to she'll go to jail for fraud because she is collecting money (she's on SSI) for the time he is with her. We didn't know this. She told him he has to spend the night or she'll go to jail and that she needs that money so she won't change the schedule. She also told dh that she is thinking about going to court to make dss spend the night with her. He's almost 14, btw. He is scheduled to be with her every Tuesday and EO weekend, but in reality is there 4-6 on Tuesdays and usually just 10-4ish on EO Saturday. Now, dh swears he's not going to rat her out and that he just wants everything to stay as it is, she thinks she is going to get caught. Oh, yuck. I don't even have any thoughts. I'm trying to process "what's right" and I can't.
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11/22/08 at 7:05pm