Hi! I’m new to the boards and hope this isn’t a double post, comp seems to have eaten my last attempted post. I’ve seen some great advice given so hopefully I’ll be able to clear my head and start this process. Thanks to the net, I have a ton of info at my feet but, I’m more confused than anything right now.
Some background on my family:
-I have two sons with my fiance. They’re ages 4 and 2, fiance is English and currently lives there
-After his 18 month shots, my 2 year old started showing signs of speech and social delays
-Moved to the UK again, no improvement. Spoke to other families and researched. We thought he might be autistic.
-Came back to the States, Dr. referred us to Early Intervention. We are currently on Medical Assistance.
-Early Intervention saw no “red flags” for Autism, but DS has the speech skills of a 9-12 month old @ 25 months, and needs help improving eye contact and responding to name being called, commands (“no”, “please come here” “stop” etc). He’s now been in speech therapy for 2 weeks.
-Even before E.I. he’s been showing a lot of improvement trying to communicate to us and interact. It’s like he’s been in a fog and just broke through
So after a ton of research me and their dad want to delay and/or stop vac’s altogether and see what happens (developmentally and healthwise- our oldest has asthma and constant colds). We figured out PA only has a religious exemption. We aren’t affiliated with any religion, we don’t go to church or anything like that, we celebrate G-d in our own ways.
So for anyone whose gone through this (and theres lots in the forum and all over the net, I’m just worried my circumstances are a little different.)
1. Do I have to be affiliated with a religion? Who do I take this exemption to? Do they ask a lot of questions? I’ve heard they are becoming harder and harder to come by…And how long does it take to go into effect (it’s flu shot season and I’m dodging the questions at the Dr’s)?
2. Has anyone been on State Medical Assistance and gone through this? Are the Dr’s allowed to deny seeing your child even with an exemption? My oldest needs his inhalers and nebulizer, and they aren’t cheap. I thought when I applied, the caseworker said something about service being withheld if we didn’t keep up with the vac schedule. And are there any delayed vac. Friendly Dr’s in PA? No luck with the Dr. Sears site.
3. School. My oldest is in preschool and I’m afraid they’ll kick him out or treat him differently. What are school officials allowed to do and not allowed to do?
Thanks in advance for answering questions that have probably been asked a million times before. We just want to do what we believe's best for our babies but we aren’t rich and I don’t want to put them at a bigger disadvantage
Some background on my family:
-I have two sons with my fiance. They’re ages 4 and 2, fiance is English and currently lives there
-After his 18 month shots, my 2 year old started showing signs of speech and social delays
-Moved to the UK again, no improvement. Spoke to other families and researched. We thought he might be autistic.
-Came back to the States, Dr. referred us to Early Intervention. We are currently on Medical Assistance.
-Early Intervention saw no “red flags” for Autism, but DS has the speech skills of a 9-12 month old @ 25 months, and needs help improving eye contact and responding to name being called, commands (“no”, “please come here” “stop” etc). He’s now been in speech therapy for 2 weeks.
-Even before E.I. he’s been showing a lot of improvement trying to communicate to us and interact. It’s like he’s been in a fog and just broke through
So after a ton of research me and their dad want to delay and/or stop vac’s altogether and see what happens (developmentally and healthwise- our oldest has asthma and constant colds). We figured out PA only has a religious exemption. We aren’t affiliated with any religion, we don’t go to church or anything like that, we celebrate G-d in our own ways.
So for anyone whose gone through this (and theres lots in the forum and all over the net, I’m just worried my circumstances are a little different.)
1. Do I have to be affiliated with a religion? Who do I take this exemption to? Do they ask a lot of questions? I’ve heard they are becoming harder and harder to come by…And how long does it take to go into effect (it’s flu shot season and I’m dodging the questions at the Dr’s)?
2. Has anyone been on State Medical Assistance and gone through this? Are the Dr’s allowed to deny seeing your child even with an exemption? My oldest needs his inhalers and nebulizer, and they aren’t cheap. I thought when I applied, the caseworker said something about service being withheld if we didn’t keep up with the vac schedule. And are there any delayed vac. Friendly Dr’s in PA? No luck with the Dr. Sears site.
3. School. My oldest is in preschool and I’m afraid they’ll kick him out or treat him differently. What are school officials allowed to do and not allowed to do?
Thanks in advance for answering questions that have probably been asked a million times before. We just want to do what we believe's best for our babies but we aren’t rich and I don’t want to put them at a bigger disadvantage









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: Thank you all for the replies, I didn't realize there wasn't a vaccine mandate for pre-school either. They asked for the records so I assumed there was lol.