A little history.
First baby almost 16 years ago - small baby but OB/hosp birth so I got the madnatory episiotomy and tore to my rectum.
Second baby 13 years ago - no tearing, smaller episiotomy - again hosp/OB
Babies 3, 4, 5 in the last 6 years, all home waterbirths 8.5-9.5 pounds.
#3 was compound presentation and left me with a skidmark and #4 and #5 were posterior up until pushing.
I pushed all my babies out in less than 15 minutes.
We are very sexual and had sex around 3 weeks post partum with the last 3 - first 2 were with XH.
The only issue I have I don't think I saw mentioned yet.
I have never had a problem with lubrication even at 3 weeks pp so everything always went in easily if you catch my drift and I could even orgasm upon insertion
However, after baby #5 it seems like there is extra skin surrounding my vagina that gets pulled in and pinched when DH inserts
: Because of this I have to be well lubricated (not really an issue) but also in certain positions. For instance it is better/easier if we are in the standard missionary position upon starting. I have honestly thought about getting some kind of 'reduction' of the skin because it really does get in the way.
The good news is this is my only complaint though things could be a little tighter, I do keegles but need to step them up
I am very multi orgasmic in that I can have many vaginal orgasms in one session so I know I am fortunate but the skin really does bother me. It would be nice if we could start in different positions rather than having to start the same way each time and then change as we go.