1littlebit I definately relate to people thinking you are unmarried and the baby was an accident. I am married and my daughter was planned!
I dont seem to fit in with my younger friends anymore and I feel really weird at play dates with the older moms. I do have one mom that I get along with she is older, I think 28-ish, she has tattoos and stuff and her husband is a Dj so thats cool.
I'm a SAHM. I think its hard for people to accept the idea that I'm young, married, have a house, and we make it work so I can stay home. Now as hard as it is for people to understand all that its even harder for people to get eating healthy, AP parenting, and things like knitting and sewing, that just blows their mind