no advice here, im a totaly nervous wreck when it comes to this stuff, Im clueless and scared about sums me up! I wish you luck on your date though TripleAces and butterflymom
how do I feel about the date? Hmm..I always feel like once we have spent some face to face time together I like him more. I definately like his personality. I think he is cute too, so im attracted to him both ways. But not in a huge way ifkwim? tripleaces
can I ask what you did with the guy when you watched a movie together? like did you sit close together, did he hold your hand or put his hand on your leg or anything like that? Im just totally lost on what he and I are supposed to do at this point in terms of showing affection. I have to admit im not a naturally affectionate person, apart from with my son. At one point he pushed me a little bit because he wanted me right beside him in the queue to get his food and I was standing a little behind him, I wasn't sure what to make of that....is it okay he did that, or not? No one wants to be pushed into place by anyone...I wouldn't do that to someone.Seie
I think you have hit the nail on the head! There isn't much, if any, chemistry there between us! What do I do about that? What does that mean? Chemistry is when you feel you want to be allover eachother right?
I really don't know. Im not crazy about him but I like him and he seems to like me. I asked him at one point "how do you feel about me having a child" and he didn't know what to say, his face got all serious (he does this really CUTE serious/thinking facial expression) and he didn't know what to say, so I said "It's just how it is really" and he was like "yeah, I like kids". So although that was an okay reply, I would have preferred a better answer like hmm.. I don't know, but the fact he didnt know what to say I thought was weird.
What do you think about that subject?
Also, on the date I felt like I didn't want to be there about half of the time -I think that's due to my social anxiety, that's a normal reaction for me when im out some place with other people...I always want to be home, so I can't say that was because of him. I kept thinking about my son too, and wishing I was with him instead (just because that's a comfortable place to be and it's safe you know?) At times I also felt like I was doing something wrong, like going against my son by seeing this man and considering bringing him into DS's life. Maybe I just feel like I need to make it VERY CLEAR that my son comes first and always will do and once I know hes okay with that and understands it, then I'll feel better about seeing him. I hate feeling like im doing something harmful to my son....I don't know why I feel like that, any ideas? -it's like I feel my relationship and closeness to my son is being threatened?