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I'm sorry you are dealing with this. It is extremely difficult to deal with irrational people on a regular basis. I agree with the others, all you can do is control your own response. If ex becomes irrational just end the conversation. It is important to fight the urge to get defensive - just stick with the task at hand and do not respond to all of the other BS.

It has taken a while but I'm now at the point where I just feel sorry for my ex when he has his violent outbursts and temper tantrums. It must be sad going through life being so angry. It is a clear sign of unhappiness as well as dysfunction. I also feel sorry for his new wife and our son because they both have to witness these angry outbursts.