I am going to start taking some items (like clothes and documents) over there this week. I drive that way for school anyway, so I'm going to start taking the un-noticed items over. The only big stuff I need is my computer, desk, printer (all for school). We have an extra bed in a storage unit that I plan to get, but I don't have to get that out of the house.
I've transferred money into my personal bank account, but I don't know that I can close our joint account on my own, and his unemployment checks get direct deposited in there.
I only make $300 a month right now, but I will be looking for another PT job when I move out. I also have a student loan coming my way in Jan. My friend is only charging me $200 for the room, I have food stamps and WIC, so I will just have $100 left over for gas, etc for the month until I find another PT job. (I can't quit the one I am in right now, it's needed for my career goals)
I don't have a lawyer, but I am going to Legal Aid here in SLC, and see if they will help me. I am not filing for divorce right NOW, I am asking him for a separation... do I still need the same order?