thank you everyone for all the kind words of congrats.
we're all still doing well. dd is doing wonderful as a big sister. dh and I catch her cuddling with him pretty often.
We're working at the bfing. It's slow going but we're doing ok. My supply is in and too much! I have to wake ds up to eat just so I don't explode! We have a rough time from about 10pm to about 2am when hes fussy and having tummy troubles but aside from that he sleeps and eats well.
So far this has been much easier and less stressful than the first 3 months after having dd. Aside from my back hurting quite a bit my body feels pretty good. Everything is almost back to normal "down there" already! Just wish my belly was back to normal
Anyway, all is well here. thanks again everyone!