I am still working on it, but have begun modifying this one, from my last home birth. I thought I had previously included a blurb along the lines of "Please understand and respect that this was not our original intent, and as such, my's feelings may be conflicted. Please continue to treat me as an intelligent participant in my birth," but I don't see that on here.
In the Event of Transfer to Hospital During Labor
Mother: ...
Father: ...
Estimated Due Date: ...
Primary Maternity Caregiver: ...
Obstetrical Back-up: ...
Doulas: ...
Pediatrician: ...
If Mother and Baby are in good health:
•I wish to continue an as unmedicated, low-intervention birth as feasible.
•I would like the lights to be dimmed and allowed to continue to drink to thirst.
•I would like to try non-conventional labor positions, such as squatting, if at all possible, before lithomy.
•We would like the option to film my labor and birth.
•As long as my son is handling contractions well, I wish to push to my own comfort, not on command.
•I would like my son to be delivered onto my stomach, and allowed an opportunity to bond with him.
•We are requesting delayed cord clamping and unassisted delivery of the placenta.
•Please do not perform any procedure on my son before discussing it with me.
•In the event of a tear or episiotomy, I wish for local to be used during repairs.
If Augmentation is Indicated:
•As long as baby and I are in good health, I would like to be allowed to labor without time limits or augmentation.
•If augmentation is necessary, I would like to try the following methods, in the following order of preference:
oThumb-sucking and acupressure
oNipple stimulation with breast pump and warm compress (will bring)
oStripping membranes
oPitocin
oAROM
If a Caesarean-Section is Indicated:
•Time-permitting, I would like a second opinion.
•Time-permitting, I prefer an epidural and the ability to be awake during the surgery.
•I would like to be given the option of viewing the birth by either lowering the screen, or placement of mirrors.
•We would like the opportunity to film the birth.
•I would like to have a hand free to touch my son after he is born.
•I would like to delay newborn procedures, including bath, until after I have been reunited with my baby.
•Please do not perform any procedure on my son before discussing it with me.
•My husband is to stay with our son until I am able to be with him.
•I am breastfeeding and wish to be reunited with my son as soon as possible. He is not to be giving any supplementation nor artificial nipple of any kind without my express permission.
PLEASE: No Bottles, Formula, Pacifiers, or Sugar WaterWe DO NOT consent to our son being circumcised.
I also have an obnoxiously lengthy list of birth preferences for my doulas.

But I found that even with a single page, at my hospital birth, no one read it. The nurses asked for the gist, and were respectful. The on-call OB ignored my birth preferences, written and verbal.