There's this girl in one of my classes. We recently started talking, and she has helped DH and I a bit with some stuff. I missed class on Monday for my appointment (Really, DH didn't feel like getting up to go fill the tire on our vehicle, and I don't know how to... ), and today I missed class because instead of being just low and needing air, the tire decided to poop out completely to where we couldn't even drive it across the street to get it aired up She called me this afternoon and asked if everything is going alright. I told her yes, and she said that since I have missed 2 classes, she thought I might have had the baby. I told her that I haven't yet, and we talked a bit more. She said at the end of our conversation that she wanted me to let her know when I'm having the baby because she wants to be there. I don't know her that well, so I don't know how I feel about her being there. OTOH, we have been having a problem trying to figure out what to do with DD when I have the baby, so maybe this is the "working itself out" that we've been waiting for. I'm kind of weirded out a little. I don't know what to do... But I feel so indebted to her that it seems like the least I can do... and it *would* help to have someone else there who could help watch DD. I was thinking let her know when I'm going to the hospital, but ask her if she would mind staying in the family waiting room thing? Would you be weirded out too? Would you accept her wanting to be there? What would you do?
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12/4/08 at 2:33am