My niece had a baby boy today...... - Page 2

[AnnMarie]

Originally posted by bebesho2
Anyway, the only other time it came up was when DS was a month old and an Aunt helped me change him-she LITERALLY screamed at his intactness. Ilaughed at her.

: People are so......never mind, I'll be nice, she's your aunt. LOL

Screw 'em. The yhave issues with our "race", practices, etc. What do I care what they think?

Yeah, been there done that. My mother told me I was acting like a slut and that no white man would ever want me again just for having Hispanic friends. : Can you imagine when I started dating one of them and then we had a baby together? :LOL She wouldn't give me a baby shower because she said, "Nobody would come." : You'd think I murdered someone when I started going to a different church. She wasn't happy that I didn't baptise my children either.

I just don't understand people.

Humm, it must be time for bed because I thought this was giving the finger... :LOL

[AnnMarie]

Some good news for a change.....

She didn't circ him after all.

They are all still mad at me, including her, over the letter I wrote. I just don't get it. I don't think it was all that bad. You'd think she'd be glad that she had the information seeing how she changed her mind, but nope. They should all be mad at her boyfriend for trying to make her do something she didn't want to do, but instead they are mad at me.

There has been a lot of lies told about the whole thing. Not one of them has talked to me about it. :

[teniprice]

Ann Marie... that is awesome that she didn't circ him!!! I am sorry that they are still upset with you though. At least you can rest well knowing that you've saved that little boy from being circ'd. I know they will come around. They probably just need time. Anyway, it IS good news. Way to go girl!!!

[AnnMarie]

Thanks! It's OK even if they don't come around...at least something good came out of this. To be honest, the way I feel now, I don't want them in my life. I'm tired of being a throw away person to all of them. At least I went out with a bang. :LOL

[TigerTail]

so it's win-win, right?
(i know you have felt hurt, just trying to look at the bright side. i'll bet that BABY will be talking to you one day, when he hears the story!)

suse

[AnnMarie]

Yes exactly, it's a win-win situation at this point. Even if it doesn't feel like it. Believe me, I am very happy that he wasn't hurt. I wonder if someone will tell him the story one day?

[Christy1980]

All Right!!!

good job mamma!! too bad they were all being jerks to you. At least your neice listened, and she's the one that counts right now, right? dont' worry, that baby is really greatful you saved him.

Did you get your wood? I was thinking about you the other day.

[AnnMarie]

Originally posted by Christy1980
All Right!!!

good job mamma!! too bad they were all being jerks to you. At least your neice listened, and she's the one that counts right now, right? dont' worry, that baby is really greatful you saved him.

Thanks, but for all I know they didn't do it because there wasn't a doctor around on the weekend before she left. LOL I really have no idea why she didn't do it, but I'm glad it wasn't done.

Did you get your wood? I was thinking about you the other day.

No, but some very kind people from AOL got together and sent me a little bit of money for wood. I'm going to see where I can get some tomorrow and if I can't get wood then I'll get oil. Both will keep us warm. When my own family let me down total strangers helped out. Says a lot.

[ThomasL]

Hello Ann Marie,I glad the circumcision didnt happen however they seem to be irrational people.Lets hope they dont decide to circ him later on.

[AnnMarie]

Originally posted by ThomasL
Hello Ann Marie,I glad the circumcision didnt happen however they seem to be irrational people.Lets hope they dont decide to circ him later on.

That was my thought too. I asked my mother if my niece was going to have it done later and she said no so I can only hope for the best now.