This leads to some confusion and conflict, even within Christianity. If I maintain that all fornication is a sin, I am lumped together with those who think gay people should be shot.
Speaking for my own religious background: Not only is homosexual fornication no worse than any other form of fornication (and less bad than some), I think it is clear that sexual sins in general are not regarded as the worst sins. Blasphemy, idolatry, or desecration of sacred items are all considered far worse. I think many denominations agree in principle, yet we do not see groups of zealous "Christians" out looking to catch people yelling "G-- d--n it!" when they get a parking ticket, or spray-painting graffiti on the wall of a church, and beat the crap out of them.
this brings up a good point. would I say something to someone who said "g-d d-nit"? probably not. would I say something to someone saying it to my kids... or even yelling it at their kid? probably. yes it is their choice to say so... but not when it directly affects another person. the same with other things. would I say something to a homosexual just b/c they were homosexual? no! that is their choice and I have deep respect for it. would I let them to talk to my child about it? no. do you see what I am getting at? it is one thing to support a person's right to choose their own way. another to let it effect my family, self or what have you.
what I mean is that I think God is God of all. so therefore His commands will be for everyone. that said, he gives us a choice. if we choose not to follow, that is our choice. but if we choose to be a follower and then instead make our own decisions on what is or is not morally correct (biblically/christianity wise) we need to be held accountable to it. we need to be SURE we are right on this, or we're just making it up as we go. there is much danger to ourselves and others in that.
all in all I recognize people's choice. I don't find homosexuality repulsive or sick. I do think people feel love for one another. I only find it sinful b/c of what I find in the Bible that God says about it. I realize some churches DO act out of hatred and that is sick and wrong and completely unbiblical! They WILL be judged on that! Jesus never went to people not of the faith and said "hey you sinner! sick person! how disgusted I am by you!" but He did go to the teachers and rabbi's who did not keep his commands and confronted them on their sins.
so my point is that is it wrong to expect people who choose not to follow God to follow his commands. God gave us all our free will.