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post #1 of 7
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So, long story short, we've found ourselves with 4 kids and a 3-kid car.
Finances just haven't worked out to get a bigger vehicle.

So, we have a nice winter storm going, cloudy and a bit depressing in and of itself; but on top of that I'm just 10 days out from having given birth, stuck at home with 3 very energetic kids and a newborn. :

Trying to stay on top of my moods here, but between the post-partum hormones and lack of sleep is becoming increasingly difficult. Not to mention the fact that DH owns a business and is gone for up to 14 hours a day!

Of course it doesn't help that it starts to get dark at around 3 in the afternoon either

I'm finding myself yelling at the kids (especially DS1, he's my little firecracker ) way too often, the boys get so dang wound up, and then end up crying because they've hurt themselves, or DD is bawling because DS1 is using her for a punching bag, etc. etc...........

Anyway, anybody else experiencing cabin fever this winter?
(I don't mind DDC crashers, just didn't know where else to put this )
post #2 of 7
Oh, I am SO in this club!!!! We have a car to fit our 4 kids now..and our 5th..but dp takes it every.single.day. I am stuck at home w/ the 4 of them and too pregnant to want to do anything anyway. Our yard is super tiny and not fenced and we live on a crazy busy unsafe streets so we can't really play outside either or walk anywhere. I hate it here! Plus it's cold and I don't do cold and we are getting a snow storm (I don't do snow either... and it's just the start of winter!

I worry about PPD b/c of this situation and am going to try my harderst to keep on top of it. I have 3 boys and they drive me nuts! They play rough and then cry when they get hurt and drag poor little dd into it too. I know how you feel

Plus dp goes out of town a lot and informed me that on Jan.3rd he will be in NYC of a week Even if I'm 2 weeks PP, 1 week PP he has to "see the opening of this hotel" no matter what. I have no friends near me (we moved here a few months ago from the other coast) and his family isn't close (1.5 hours away) and mine is in TX. Even if his were willing to come they can't b/c they work during the week. I dread that week and I'm scared of it

At least I'll have the car that week tho! Not sure if i'll be up to going anywhere at that point w/ a babe so young and out alone....

We homeschool and do attend a homeschool group thing once a week. I'm so glad for that socialization! I love them...but trying to juggle the car and how to get there and drop and pick him up sucks. We are pretty much trapped in this house all the time. I am losing my mind and have yet to birth this babe!

I wish you much strength during this time. I am here with you and know what you are going through and how it feels
post #3 of 7
I'm in a similar situation. I was in hibernation mode for at least 2 weeks before delivery. No I'm ready to go out and get stuff done, but we are sharing a car. plus I'm afraid to take the baby out this time of year around all the grems . I have so much stuff to do too. :
post #4 of 7
Snow storm is here. Looks amazing outside and luckily dp was let off early from work so he took the kids out in it to play. Had hot chocolate and made banana bread muffins and we lit a fire. It's nice and cozy in here!

Luckily this ends on Monday and he's home to help during this storm and I'm really grateful for that. Just hoping babe stays put until then and we get the test results back for the gbs then as well.
post #5 of 7
I hear all of you. I spent the day with the girls and my sister and her three kids today which helped a lot with the increase in depression I have been having since I haven't been at work. I am taking huge amounts of omega three's to stave off further depression. My DP lives over an hour away so I understand what you all are going through with your DH's having to go away. I think our society has not helped us new mommies what with being so far from our families and having no paid maternity or paternity leave. It's really hard for all of us. My girls are older but my 11yo has hit puberty and her moods are as unpredictable as mine are at this point which makes us a dynamic duo. Lemon Juice, hope your test comes back better. I've been trying all sorts of things for mine too but I don't know if I'll be able to get another test done before the birth so we will just have to be very careful. Best of luck to you!
post #6 of 7
I have serious cabin fever, too. We go out every few days for short periods of time to help me not go nuts. That said, I'm going to try and stay at home starting tomorrow for at least a week b/c I can't deal with Christmas madness and possible germy germs with all of the people around.
post #7 of 7
gretae, thanks. Best of luck to you too It has me really stressed out...not as much as last week..but it's still there hanging over me, kwim?

I have not left this house since Thursday night! : Snow started Friday and now it's Saturday night. I would love to get out but the roads are so bad I worry if I go into labor I won't get back home and what not. No way can I stay in tomorrow..and then again Monday. I will lose my mind! At least the kids were out in the snow today and here and there. I feel better if they can get out and awful if they are inside too much, too long for them. It makes me even more sad. I can't wait till the snow is gone!

Starfish...I know! germs this time of year and a babe so small make me shiver! I worry about my kids bringing things in...but since we only go out once a week I am not as worried. We were SO sick last year. It was awful! That is just not going to happen this year. No way, no how! (i hope )
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