I'm sorry that woman said that to you.
I don't know why some people think it's alright to comment about other peoples' families.
I can't imagine anyone thinking they have the right to say some of the things they say. I've *always* wanted a big family. Seriously, 8 or 9 to me would be amazing. (#2 is still baking, so it will be awhile before we start talks of that nature, but just saying.)
We only have DD and LO on the way, and already people are saying how we must be "done" because now "you have your boy and your girl."
I know DH would like to have one more, and like I said, 8 or 9 doesn't sound too bad to me. When I say that I would like to have more, everyone looks at me like I'm insane, or thinks I'm being irresponsible, even if *they* have more kids than 2. *shakes head* I'm so sorry, OP, that people are so insensitive.
Your family is beautiful.