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post #1 of 21
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I didn't see a forum for movies...I hope this is in the right spot--sorry if it's not.

Has anyone seen Marley and Me? I read the book and would like to see the movie (I think--ugh--bring on the Kleenex).
post #2 of 21
I went to see this yesterday with my 2 girls, and I wish I had known how sad it was at the end. I was bawling my eyes out and so was everyone eles in the movie theater. what a heart felt real movie. If I had known I would not have taken my girls (10 and 6).

I am definatly going to read the book now.
post #3 of 21
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The book was great, but there were parts where I literally couldn't read it because I had tears pouring out of my eyes.

I actually get kind of annoyed at the way they're just showing it to be a cutesy doggie movie on the previews.
post #4 of 21
wha? that is annoying-thanks for the heads up-off to check kidsinmind.
post #5 of 21
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wha? that is annoying-thanks for the heads up-off to check kidsinmind.
I want to clarify that (even though I haven't seen the movie yet), it's not BAD for kids (well, the book anyway). It's just about Marley's life...and dogs don't live forever.

The part that annoys me is that the previews remind me of the Bethoven movies, or along those lines with a happy ending. This is real.
post #6 of 21
I saw-and that's fine, but yes-don't represent the movie to be something else! I couldn't take my dds (or myself) to see that-waaay too heavy.
post #7 of 21
yes! nothing violent happens. when its that sad though you either need to prepare young children, or something. (or even yourself).

I really want to read the book just because I feel they probably left out lots.
I think Jennifer Aniston represented the wife/mom very very well. I think Owen Wilson was blah at times, but they just may be another reason it felt like a real story about a real family. Im just surprised they picked him to be the husband.

~~~some reading http://www.johngroganbooks.com/blog/ ~~~
post #8 of 21
Our family watched it yesterday. I was crying as was a ton of other people in the theater. It says PG but I don't think I would've taken my kids had I known they'd mention sex and testicles, and the sadness of course.
post #9 of 21
I can't do it. My dog is a yellow Lab and I am still under the delusion she WILL live forever.
post #10 of 21
I refuse to see sad dog movies, too depressing.
post #11 of 21
I've read the book and I cried so hard at the end, I could barely read the words!I hope they did a good job with the movie.
post #12 of 21
I saw it. I wasn't that impressed. I heard the book was better (that's usually how it is).
post #13 of 21
i enjoyed the movie. i havent read the book but plan to read it.

i have a HUGE pita about how it was marketed. thankfully i had done the research so i did not take my 6 year old. when the movie comes out in dvd i will show it to her - just not in the movie theater where everything is magnified. my dd is the kind who can watch harry potter in the movie theater but absolutely lost it with 'a bugs life' at home. the emotionally charged scenes she just could not handle.

i was pissed off with how the trailer was shown before all kids movies wen you went to see a kids movie - yet when you went to see marley and me it was all adult trailers they were showing.

i did not like how it was portrayed as a family film - when i felt certain parts were too intense for kids. when you say its a family movie i assume i can take my 4 year old to it.

i guess a lot of people felt like that in LA because all the billboards and posters had been graffittied with the ending.

i cried buckets too - not because of the movie but because of having lived that experience.
post #14 of 21
I've read the book; liked it.

I really liked the movie, too.

I find it curious in this day and age that people don't look up movies on line before hand. The rating system is merely a subjective guideline.

I found it a refreshingly realistic movie. As *any* of us with a pet knows, pets don't typically outlive humans. You know when you get that puppy that you are going to bury it some day.

I have never given two hoots about Jennifer Aniston, but I gotta tell you, I thought she nailed the overwhelmed mother. Yelling at the dog, blaming him for everything, just wanting a little sleep; I felt like her portrayal of a stay at home mom with two small children to be very realistic. The house was a mess, the kids were crying--felt like home!

Sure, it was sad at the end. My ten year old bawled. We have so many pets, I think we don't go a year without burying one, and the end really got to her even though we had prepared her.

We all cried at the theater, but then by the time we got to the car, we were all laughing about all the "terrible" things the dog did. Having a very high energy, 75# dog ourselves, we completely identified.

My husband's favorite part was when the dog tried to jump out the car window--unfortunately we nearly had a similar experience once.

Mine was when he went to look at the house and Marley jumped into the swimming pool and John goes "Whose dog is that?" Owen Wison was perfect for the part, I love how he delivers his lines in this movie.

ETA: I saw a couple of people with smaller children leave after the dog got home from the vet the first time. I think that's a great idea--you get to see the funny parts, you understand that the dog has grown old and is not long for this world, but you miss the final vet visit and the burial. For those of you who think your kids are too young or too sensitive to handle the dog's actual death and burial, maybe that would be a good option.
post #15 of 21
My dd1 and I both enjoyed the book. She's curious about the film, but I think it may be too overwhelming for her (she's only 6.5). The book described a couple of grisly murders and a stabbing. Are those in the film?
post #16 of 21
The stabbing is in the film. Basically the dog starts to growl, then John and Jenn hear a scream so John and the dog run outside and over to the neighbor's driveway, where the girl is leaning against her car. She's crying and says something like "He said he's stab me if I screamed, and I screamed." She's young, maybe high school or college.

You don't really even see blood. John stays with her and tries to calm her. The scene doesn't last very long, and it cuts right when you hear the sirens in the distance.

Honestly, it isn't very gruesome or graphic. I can see where it would disturb some kids, but I think they played it well. It wasn't gratuitous or anything; it was pretty low key.

I don't remember murders in the book; it's been a while since I read it, though. There aren't any murders in the movie.
post #17 of 21
Thanks, lorijds. That's kind of what I guessed. The stabbing was part of the plot and the murders were just things that happened in their neighborhood that influenced the decision to move in the book, if I remember correctly.

I think that I will have dd1 wait to see it on DVD. She's pretty sensitive to images, much more so than books.
post #18 of 21
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I find it curious in this day and age that people don't look up movies on line before hand. The rating system is merely a subjective guideline.
DH does. I don't. I'm 40, and when I was growing up, trailers actually gave you a pretty good idea what to expect from a movie. I don't think they do, anymore...but I haven't adjusted my thinking enough to think of checking movies out ahead of time if a trailer interests me. I might look for ratings on IMDB or rotten tomatoes, but I don't think to check if a movie marketed as a family movie is actually a sad drama.

I pay no attention to ratings at all.
post #19 of 21
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I went to see this yesterday with my 2 girls, and I wish I had known how sad it was at the end. I was bawling my eyes out and so was everyone eles in the movie theater. what a heart felt real movie. If I had known I would not have taken my girls (10 and 6).

I am definatly going to read the book now.
thats what my mom said. she and my little sister (not so little, shes 24, lol) saw it on christmas, and everyone in the theater was bawling.
post #20 of 21
Originally Posted by lorijds
I find it curious in this day and age that people don't look up movies on line before hand. The rating system is merely a subjective guideline.>>>>>>>>>

you know, sometimes I do , sometimes I dont. My husbands ENTIRE family said they read the book, and where seeing the movie and where excited to see it.
OK not one person said "oh the ending is kind of sad" "or its a tear jerker" Nothing....
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