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post #61 of 387
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Originally Posted by mamaspirit View Post
So I tested tonight and I"m pretty sure it's a BFN... There was a very faint line, but I'm pretty sure that is just the shadow where the line would be if it were there, lol! When ttcing my last baby I got pretty experienced in "seeing" a line on any test! LOL... anyway, still no AF so I'll wait a few days and if it still doesn't show up I will test again.
I am glad things have worked out for you.
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I guess I'd assume it's negative, too, even if it is a real line but very faint. At 17dpo I would expect a very dark line. I'm really good at seeing the spot where the line is supposed to be, too. It can be very nerve wracking.

I got AF today. My temp is still high. My PP lps so far have been 10 or 11 days.
Glad things went well for you too.
It's so easy to see lines where there aren't any.

More weird things are happening with my chart. FF changed my o day.
I don't understand where they got the coverline from. More temps are above my CL than below it! I need some second opinions.
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/22472a
post #62 of 387
Hi everyone! I posted last month, but it looks like my post was overlooked as my name still got taken off the list. My current cycle is frustrating because I finally starting observing my cervix daily again and my body keeps acting like it's going to O, but then doesn't. I'm trying to stay positive by telling myself that longer cycles mean fewer AFs between now and when we finally get to TTC again

CTA While Nursing - My PPAF came at 11 weeks and I started temping then. My temps were pretty erratic at the beginning, but in 10 cycles, there has only been one where I couldn't pinpoint O based on a thermal shift, and that was just recently. We cosleep and DS still wakes to nurse at least 3-4 times a night but I am able to take reliable temps anyway.

First PP LP - Before DS, I had 13 and 15 day LPs (I only charted for two cycles before getting pg). Since getting my PPAF, my LP was 7-8 days for the first 7 cycles, then jumped to 11 days for a cycle, but then back down to either 5 or 7 the following cycle. So, my experience has been a shorter LP, not just for the first PPAF, but for many cycles after as well. However, I do suspect some kind of hormone issue, possibly progesterone deficiency. But, since we're TTA for at least 16 more months, I'm in no hurry to fix it right now.
post #63 of 387
Hey all,

Haven't been hanging out much here, as I'm in that boring phase of my cycle right after AF. Have decided to track cervix position etc again, as I think that will be helpful for me. (And it's interesting to learn, now that I'm no longer overwhelmed by the whole thing!)

Oh, and for the pp who asked, I nurse at night too, and sometimes it's VERY often (my DS cut 8 teeth in Nov/Dec including 4 molars. : )
post #64 of 387
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mommy2two babes ~ You need to change your link. It goes to the subscription for the RSS feed rather than straight to your chart. As far as the CL and O day FF gave you, it's basing that on the + opks and your CF. I'd put your CL at 97.3. It is still possible you Oed when FF says depending on why the two temps for cd22 and 23 are open circles. If those temps are correct, I'd put your O day on cd23 with the same CL of 97.3.

Sihaya ~ I'll put your name back on the front page. Do you have a chart link?
post #65 of 387
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Originally Posted by MarineWife View Post
mommy2two babes ~ You need to change your link. It goes to the subscription for the RSS feed rather than straight to your chart. As far as the CL and O day FF gave you, it's basing that on the + opks and your CF. I'd put your CL at 97.3. It is still possible you Oed when FF says depending on why the two temps for cd22 and 23 are open circles. If those temps are correct, I'd put your O day on cd23 with the same CL of 97.3.

Sihaya ~ I'll put your name back on the front page. Do you have a chart link?
There I think I fixed the link. CD22 and CD 23 are open dots because I slept in an hour and a half those mornings. The OPKs were very positive like darker than the control line. I had only continued doing them becasue I didn't think I could have oed when FF said last time ( that and I am a POAS addict)
I don't understand though why so many temps are above the CL.
post #66 of 387
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Originally Posted by CanidFL View Post
Akaisha – thanks. I don’t really see the similarity to my last chart though.
just meant how your temp spiked a couple of times in the LP last cycle. but those were after a temp drop last time and this one was more gradual, so yeah, i dunno.

**
i'm in a '"DTD twice with condoms the day after O, but fooled around a bit beforehand and i really don't think there's anything to worry about, ok, i *know* logically there is nothing to worry about, but i'm going to worry a little anyway" frame of mind right now,

i really need to stop being so ridiculous. note to self: you cannot get pregnant when you haven't had unprotected sex. wow.
post #67 of 387
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i really need to stop being so ridiculous. note to self: you cannot get pregnant when you haven't had unprotected sex. wow.
I know probably not what you meant but tell that to my two kids
post #68 of 387
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More weird things are happening with my chart. FF changed my o day.
I don't understand where they got the coverline from. More temps are above my CL than below it! I need some second opinions.
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/22472a
I would put your O date the same as FF did but move the coverline up .2 degrees. I don't think FF knows how to draw a coverline....
post #69 of 387
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Originally Posted by mommy2two babes View Post
I know probably not what you meant but tell that to my two kids
oh no, don't say that to me.
post #70 of 387
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Originally Posted by MarineWife View Post
Sihaya ~ I'll put your name back on the front page. Do you have a chart link?
Thanks! My chart is linked in my signature. It's http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/164a16
post #71 of 387
That didn't come out right. LOL I'll post again later.
post #72 of 387
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Originally Posted by mommy2two babes View Post
There I think I fixed the link. CD22 and CD 23 are open dots because I slept in an hour and a half those mornings. The OPKs were very positive like darker than the control line. I had only continued doing them becasue I didn't think I could have oed when FF said last time ( that and I am a POAS addict)
I don't understand though why so many temps are above the CL.
So, adjusted those temps would be even lower? In that case, I'd definitely put your O day on cd23 with a CL of 97.3. I don't set an O day until I can see a sustained thermal shift in temps. FF puts a lot of importance on CF and opks even though you can have fertile CF and positive opks and still not O. It can also take up to 72 hours after the first + opk to actually O even though they say the norm is 12-24 hours. I think FF likes to set the CL a bit lower because it's supposed to make it easier to see the shift. Lots of times it just confuses things more. Where the CL is put doesn't really matter, though. It's just a visual to help you see the change from lower temps to higher temps.
post #73 of 387
Well, I'm almost ready to say I'm in the clear and breathe a sigh of relief... Almost! I won't until AF comes. But from the way I'm feeling, it should be tonight or tomorrow--she usually is a night-visiter for me anyway. Keep your fingers crossed!
post #74 of 387
good luck reikimommy!

everytime i have a slight scare i always say "this is the last time!" and it never is. :
post #75 of 387
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Originally Posted by akaisha View Post
good luck reikimommy!

everytime i have a slight scare i always say "this is the last time!" and it never is. :
Yeah... I know... But if I can just remember how it's been wearing on me, maybe it will be the last one, at least for quite a while! Well, at least DH is gone until March, so I'm safe until then *if* AF does show--which hasn't happened yet. Still having major cramps though, and CM that's usual before AF, so not giving up hope. + I'm not actually late, just worried.
post #76 of 387
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Originally Posted by MarineWife View Post
So, adjusted those temps would be even lower? In that case, I'd definitely put your O day on cd23 with a CL of 97.3. I don't set an O day until I can see a sustained thermal shift in temps. FF puts a lot of importance on CF and opks even though you can have fertile CF and positive opks and still not O. It can also take up to 72 hours after the first + opk to actually O even though they say the norm is 12-24 hours. I think FF likes to set the CL a bit lower because it's supposed to make it easier to see the shift. Lots of times it just confuses things more. Where the CL is put doesn't really matter, though. It's just a visual to help you see the change from lower temps to higher temps.
Thanks for clearing that up. This whole cycle has had me
Even now my temp is much higher than it has ever been any of the cycles I have charted so far. I will be glad to start fresh with a new cycle soon.
post #77 of 387
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i really need to stop being so ridiculous. note to self: you cannot get pregnant when you haven't had unprotected sex. wow.
This is perfect! I need this to be my new mantra. I don’t know why I freak out every LP thinking there is a chance. DH didn’t finish in me. There is no chance. Period.

But my temps do look awfully suspicious Just kidding. I know I’m not pregnant
post #78 of 387
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This is perfect! I need this to be my new mantra. I don’t know why I freak out every LP thinking there is a chance. DH didn’t finish in me. There is no chance. Period.

But my temps do look awfully suspicious Just kidding. I know I’m not pregnant
omg, i'm even worse! i'm all "sex with condoms, the day after O, but OMG WHAT IF?!?!" lol. freaking ludicrous. i clearly have too much time on my hands...

in other, unrelated news, i'm so sick right now so i'm sitting here doped up on lots of vitamin C and tea trying not to fall asleep at my computer.
post #79 of 387
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Originally Posted by CanidFL View Post
This is perfect! I need this to be my new mantra. I don’t know why I freak out every LP thinking there is a chance. DH didn’t finish in me. There is no chance. Period.

But my temps do look awfully suspicious Just kidding. I know I’m not pregnant
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Originally Posted by akaisha View Post
omg, i'm even worse! i'm all "sex with condoms, the day after O, but OMG WHAT IF?!?!" lol. freaking ludicrous. i clearly have too much time on my hands...
You guys are too funny
My DS was a condom baby
That month my monthly freak out resulted in a
post #80 of 387
[QUOTE=akaisha;12926666]omg, i'm even worse! i'm all "sex with condoms, the day after O, but OMG WHAT IF?!?!" lol. freaking ludicrous. i clearly have too much time on my hands...

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Oh thank goodness I'm not the only one! I think I might be pregnant every month and then I'm not and then I swear I won't freak out again, and well you know the rest. LOL I'm not even ovulating. Crazy! Granted we haven't used any prevention. I'm hoping charting will help ease those freak outs. I get so scared that I might be pregnant and then when I'm not I'm sad. The other day I had *very* slight pink spotting and seeing it on my chart it was 8 days after we dtd...but I'm not concerned. That did happen a couple months ago too.
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