Oh sh**, oh sh**, oh sh**
Ok, the job thing. Dh has interviews with 3 places. Long story short, we have moved beyond the disappointment phase of not being able to find the job he would really like (utilizing his fellowship training and interest to its fullest potential) to just wanting a J.O.B. The places that do have his ideal job are places I dont want to live. So, we are down to 3 places. But, truth be told, the prospect of moving to another new place, sigh, I just dont wanna. I dont have another first year in a new place in me! That means 4 years of a different school every year for dd1 (preschool, then montessori #1, now montessori #2, and if we go to a new place, montessori #3), and 3 years for ds
It means me not having friends for another year (an you all having to listen to me mope
). I have moved to 6 states in 14 years, the longest for 4 years. Im t to the i to the, you know, tired! But (you knew that was coming), the job in one of the places that are not Abq. may be better, or closer to what Dh wants. Now the other places, well, some would say they are pretty great, and they are. So really, its a matter of me getting up the oooomph for another move, when the truth is, I like where we live
The reason for the opening line; Dh just heard from the director of one of the other jobs; in essence "forget the interview, lets go skiing and get a beer instead. The job is yours if you want it.... blabla bla"
On one hand
: We have a job!! Thank god.
On the other - see opening line. This is a job that dh may like more than the one in our home town (which he interviews with in 2 wks). And if so, can I say no.
Putting the cart before the horse. I JUST heard from dh, so needed to vennnnnnt.