I happened upon having intact sons on accident. My 13-year-old was born in a hospital (Native American) that did not offer circ'ing at all. We were young and poor and could not afford to take him elsewhere so he was never cut, thank Goodness. Fast forward to my second marriage and my second son. I played the "I don't want him to look different from DS1" card and my DH was 100% fine with it after a little research. So fast forward to DS3 and again we thought, why ruin a good thing, we have done the researach, there is no reason for the procedure, so now we have 3 boys, all intact, no problems or complications ever and we don't regret our decisions at all. I'm opened-minded about a lot of things but not about this. His body, His decision!!! It seems insane to me that there women that act like they are all about human rights (such as natural birth, homebirth, etc.) but think circ'ing is a "personal" decision. I say this from personal experience and the hypocracy still astounds me. So he should come into this world with dignity and respect but after he is born, we have the right to take that away? No thanks, keep your $1600, and I will make sure to not recommend you to anyone who asks!