Originally Posted by tripleaces
Seie, the time limitations suck... is he always going to be so busy?
I was going to ask that too. Is he just real busy right now, or is this a permanent thing? I would ask him how he thinks you can get to know eachother better and be in eachothers lives more as time goes on, if he continues to be so unavailable to you.
On the other hand, you've only been with him like 2 months, so I don't see anything wrong with just seeing eachother once a week. You do spend a lot of time together imo, because even though it's once a week, you spend a full 2 days together, where-as a "normal" weekly date would be a few hours together probably.
Bottom line is, if you're not happy with seeing him that often, I agree you need to discuss this with him. Maybe he isn't aware of how you feel, and maybe he wants to spend more time with you too, but doesn't want to seem too clingy etc?
About my phone-guy, we were talking today and he said something that made me like huh??? -He's told me previously how long he's been single for, when he last relationship was, and then today he told me a completely different story of how long ago it was. I said that to him and he just was like "oh...well does it really matter?" And ok, no it doesn't matter to me how long he's been single, BUT it matters that he would say one thing, then say something completely different. Makes me feel he's not being honest with me yk? so now im like hmm???