The Bachelor with Jason Mesnick - Anyone going to watch???? - Page 3

[Koalamom]

Originally Posted by Starr

On another chat forum someone there who is a die hard Bachelor fan said that the show accidently let it slip who he picked and tried to cover it up... So I'm curious to see is she was right although I do remember what she told me and it makes sense...

Do you know anything about Deannas return?

[mandib50]

Originally Posted by bluebirdmama1

Do you know anything about Deannas return?

i think she is supposed to return on one of the last episodes, at least that is what i read.

[Starr]

Nope, All I heard was who he picked.

[the_lissa]

Can you pm me who it wasÉ I remember seeing the previews for the show and it looked like they showed who he was giving a ring to, but I thought it was a ruse.

[dearmama22]

Yeah, in the beginning previews that they did they totally gave away what looks like the women he is proposing to!! I mean, he is down on his knees and you can see her dress color.. but could totally be just a set up? I hate to know.. I love surprises.. but I think i've been reading to much and know I might know!!

[kimiij]

I hope he picks Jillian. Melissa comes in a close second. Molly's third. Naomi is last.

[dearmama22]

I expected namoi or stephanie to go- I don't think either is right with him, but I loooove stephanie. I think naomi will def. be next. They don't " fit" well to me..

I can't wait till next week.. previews should something about melissas parents not being there!?

[kimiij]

Originally Posted by dearmama22

I think naomi will def. be next. They don't " fit" well to me..

I can't wait till next week.. previews should something about melissas parents not being there!?

Yup, I hope that Naomi is next. It really annoys me that she always has her hair in her face. Not that important in the grand scheme of things but it bugs me...

Sometimes I wonder what my parents would do in that position. Would they be willing to meet a guy under those circumstances? Would they roll with the flow or would they put their foot down?

You can see in the previews how ultimately disappointed he is with the news that he will only be meeting her best friends.

[Koalamom]

Originally Posted by kimiij

Sometimes I wonder what my parents would do in that position. Would they be willing to meet a guy under those circumstances? Would they roll with the flow or would they put their foot down?

You can see in the previews how ultimately disappointed he is with the news that he will only be meeting her best friends.

If I were in that situation, I would probably not want all the world to meet my parents. I love them totally, but they are so embarrassing. I would want the meeting to be in private.
I can't wait to see what is up with Naomi's parents. I just cracked up from the preview.

[hparsh]

I read that the house he brought the girls to is not even his house. He lives in Kirkland, not Seattle, with his brother and SIL. Seems kind of sad that he is ashamed of his real living situation. What will the girls think if they knew the truth?

[mandib50]

Originally Posted by hparsh

I read that the house he brought the girls to is not even his house. He lives in Kirkland, not Seattle, with his brother and SIL. Seems kind of sad that he is ashamed of his real living situation. What will the girls think if they knew the truth?

the bachelor/ette relationships never work out so i don't think it matters

[Starr]

I really liked last nights episode. On People magazines website there is an interview recap with him and he said it was not his house but he always wanted to see what it would be like to live on a houseboat and that it just wasn't for him. Also I think a lot of people could tell just with having Ty's small bed in his room and like no personalization anywhere.

I think he knew he needed to send Steph home now than after meeting her family because in her situation with her daughter, and what she's ben through, it would be terrible to go there and meet them and then send her home. She seems great but I didn't see a spark, I think they'll be friends eventually.

Naomi is so not ready to settle down. Just from watching her I don't think she realizes not every date after the show is going to be big huge and completely planned out. I think he is really leaning towards Melissa and Molly especially after having casual dates with them and seeing how they react to not having a big glamorous night out.

Family visits look interesting. Naomi's family was a little off, but I'm watching thinking thats not so bad and then the little kids start stabbing the dead bird with a stick and the look on Jasons face says it all. I think that put an end to that.

[the_lissa]

I would think he would have told them.

I don't think he is ashamed. I wouldn't want my house broadcast on tv.

[hparsh]

Originally Posted by mandib50

the bachelor/ette relationships never work out so i don't think it matters

True. But that's part of the problem. They are dating in a fantasy world, not real life.

Originally Posted by the_lissa

I would think he would have told them.

I don't think he is ashamed. I wouldn't want my house broadcast on tv.

I don't think Jason is a private person. He put his own son on TV and talks about his ex. I think it would ruin the fantasy if he took the girls to the apartment he shares with his brother and SIL, which is probably nowhere near as nice as the boat house. He never talks about his job either, which I find strange. All the bachelors brag about their jobs.

[the_lissa]

I'm not a private person, and I still wouldn't want my house on tv. And if he lives with his brother and sil, maybe they didn't want cameras in their home. Can't blame them.

[Awaken]

Naomi seems like a great girl but I don't see it happening with them. She will be heartbroken, I don't look forward to seeing that! I agree about her hair in her face- also her head is always cocked at an odd angle.

I don't blame Melissa's family at all for not wanting to be on the show. Even though it seems normal nowadays some people just do not want private moments like meeting your daughter's potential fiance broadcast to millions via a reality show! I sure hope Jason wouldn't hold it against her! If he really does love her, then he loves her no matter what her family is like. Heck if my husband had judged me by my family there is no way we'd have ever gotten married! :

Originally Posted by hparsh

I read that the house he brought the girls to is not even his house. He lives in Kirkland, not Seattle, with his brother and SIL. Seems kind of sad that he is ashamed of his real living situation. What will the girls think if they knew the truth?

Huh, weird. I wondered about the houseboat with a toddler; that would scare the heck out of me! Poor Tye, no wonder he was cranky, being in a strange house, his dad sometimes there and sometimes gone when they are used to being together. The poor kid is probably going through a lot because of his dad's escapades! And I thought Ty was with him during the show????? They showed him coming to the bachelor pad in the beginning with Jason's brother.

Originally Posted by Starr

I think he knew he needed to send Steph home now than after meeting her family because in her situation with her daughter, and what she's ben through, it would be terrible to go there and meet them and then send her home. She seems great but I didn't see a spark, I think they'll be friends eventually.

It was hard to see Stephanie go, but you're right, much better now than after he met her family and spent more time with her daughter. I think she could see how sincere he was in truly thinking she was a wonderful person, but just missing the romantic spark.

I totally didn't understand the conversations with Jillian about her "expectations". Maybe they were referring to other talks they had had, that we didn't get to see.

And his little clarifying chats with the women to see where they stood- that seemed pointless, well duh, if you ask point blank "are you ready for this" they are all going to say yes, they all want to be the last person standing and are not going to say, no, I'm not really ready to be a mom and be married!

My bets are on Melissa! If it isn't her I will be shocked!

Oh, and Molly- to me she has no outstanding personality traits. I always forget all about her. Maybe it's just editing b/c obviously jason sees a lot in her!

[kimiij]

I feel like he is really falling for Jillian. The only problem is that she might be flakey. Does anyone else think that Jason is a really nice guy? I think I might be falling for him.

Somewhat related to the house issue: has anyone noticed that they haven't said one word about what he does?

[newmainer]

Originally Posted by Starr

On another chat forum someone there who is a die hard Bachelor fan said that the show accidently let it slip who he picked and tried to cover it up... So I'm curious to see is she was right although I do remember what she told me and it makes sense...

i think when he was talking to what's his name before the rose ceremony when he said it was perfect with Melissa, that was pretty clarifying. but that probably isn't what you're talking about.

Originally Posted by hparsh

I read that the house he brought the girls to is not even his house. He lives in Kirkland, not Seattle, with his brother and SIL. Seems kind of sad that he is ashamed of his real living situation. What will the girls think if they knew the truth?

that totally makes sense. I was like, are you kidding me? that's where he lives? but of course the show wants it all to be totally shiny and hollywood. i bet they all knew that wasn't his house.

Originally Posted by Awaken

And his little clarifying chats with the women to see where they stood- that seemed pointless, well duh, if you ask point blank "are you ready for this" they are all going to say yes, they all want to be the last person standing and are not going to say, no, I'm not really ready to be a mom and be married!

ita. it's like an interview or something- how much can you reassure him that you're "ready"? what a dumb line of questioning. there are so many other ways to get the info you want w/o asking point blank, are you ready? i bet the show completely coaches him on what he can and cannnot ask.

Originally Posted by kimiij

I feel like he is really falling for Jillian. The only problem is that she might be flakey. Does anyone else think that Jason is a really nice guy? I think I might be falling for him.

Somewhat related to the house issue: has anyone noticed that they haven't said one word about what he does?

really? i'm surprised Jillian is still there.

I read on the website bio for him that he's a legacy and estate planner... but i don't think an attorney. don't quote me on that though.

i only caught a glimpse, but Naomi's mom looked beautiful!!

i was thinking about how undiverse this group of women is, though seeing that bit of her family did seem to match my thinking that Naomi is Latina.

[hparsh]

Originally Posted by kimiij

I feel like he is really falling for Jillian. The only problem is that she might be flakey. Does anyone else think that Jason is a really nice guy? I think I might be falling for him.

Somewhat related to the house issue: has anyone noticed that they haven't said one word about what he does?

Yes, I have noticed that. I think he is in sales but I read that he is currently unemployed. What job allows you to take that much time off? I think that if Jason was proud of what he did for a living they would be showing that off.

[hollytheteacher]

I'm personally a Molly fan. I think she's cute and fun. I liked Melissa initially and still think she's okay, but she does annoy me a little. Like she's too "cutesy" or something lol i dunno.

Molly seems more mature, but still fun and cute.