This was through facebook chat, or on the wall etc? If it was in "public", I would start joining all sorts of holistic type groups that talk about having a family bed. That way it's all over your facebook, and there are nice links that anyone who cares to can look at.
If it was through their chat, well, honestly I'd do the same thing.
FB is so so so WEIRD. I was friended today by a guy who lived down the hall from me freshman year...the only thing we knew about each other is that we borrowed his car to go to the Spaghetti Factory one night, and one of my friends absolutely adored him. I never saw him after we left that dorm! But now if I friend him, he'll see the stuff I put out there for my GOOD friends. Too strange.
I got back in touch with an old old friend that had gotten kind of strange the last couple years we knew each other...I always sort of was in luv with him and I think he was with me, but the timing was always off. I had a very long "bad boy" phase and he was a very nice guy, and he gave up on me and started being jerky. Then he disappeared, my latest bad boy finally pushed me over the edge of that phase, I met a Nice Boy and married him. And this guy just can't deal with the fact that he had written me off JUST before that happened...so we had a 2 minute "chat" the other night, and, no lie, this is what he asked me first off..."so your life seems pretty good now...what did you do to dig yourself out of the hole you were in the last time I saw you in real life?"
I wasn't in a hole, I was dating a doofus and talking about it. I wasn't in a hole, I was broke and struggling in my own business. He considered all of that to be "negative" and he'd been in therapy for years and years and decided that my saying it wasn't bad was "denial" blah blah blah.
So I friend him, hoping the years have changed us, but he started off by judging me completely, and putting me on the defensive.
This guy you used to know...you barely know him but by friending him you've opened your life to him. You've talked about, in a way, *who you sleep with*, which isn't something another person might do. It's totally fine and traditional and NORMAL, but to him it's probably salacious and all that...
I think we should all have two facebooks...one for the casual types and one for the true friends.
I'm sorry for the novel, it was obviously "up" for me too!