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post #1 of 19
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42w1 day by latest estimations, and I am SO THRILLED to have her earthside. I had a fantastic run at my second homebirth but her head got stuck asynclinic, my contractions petered out, I had an anterior lip and excruciating pain. After having a perfectly progressing labor with beautiful, clear SROM after becoming almost complete, and almost 3 hours of attempted pushing/resting/resetting, I made the decision to come to the hospital for pitocin and pain relief. I was in a bad, bad emotional state...I've never ever felt pain like that with either of my two labors, it was sharp and burning and BETWEEN contractions. We got to the hospital where they treated us so very respectfully, I got an IV dose of fentanyl within 30 minutes of being there (even though it was in the middle of shift change) and 30 minutes after that, I got insane pushing urges and she came into the hands of my homebirth midwife because no one else was around. She was also friends with the attending CNM who didn't tell her to back away. having my midwife there was so great because she is well respected and they really made sure everything was as close to how we wanted it. They told me I could do whatever I wanted, wear the gown, don't wear the gown, do my monitoring in any position I was comfy, put my IV in with me standing. Everyone has said "I know this isn't what you wanted but I hope we can make your experience nice." Truthfully I know this is where I needed to be so while I'm disappointed, I'm not regretful or upset. My postpartum nurse was an apprentice homebirth midwife at one point!

It was incredibly weird birthing on the fentanyl after two unmedicated, out of hospital births...I was loopy and drunk feeling, but I think it was exactly what I needed to get over the hump of pain and wonky positioning.

Stats:

9 lbs. 3 oz (by far my biggest baby!)
20 3/4 inches
Willa Annelise
she is TOTALLY well done. Long fingernails, dry peely skin...I have less trust that babies come when ready, because seriously...I think she could have come last week. But, I am happy and proud we let her choose her birthday. 1/09/09 is not too shabby!

She is beyond adorable, nursing well, healthy and beautiful. These last couple of weeks have been so stressful and it was worth every minute to have her here safe and sound.

The birth was not at all what I wanted or planned, but I think exactly what I needed. I have had a feeling from the very beginning of this pregnancy that this one would throw us a curveball and sure enough she did. She was breech for awhile, then with the postdates stuff I was considering induction soon. So we did end up in the hospital but not for any of the reasons I thought!

they have been treating us great. We are staying 48 hours because that's how long they like to observe 42+ week babies (dumb) but we're going along with it because I have a 2 and 4 yo at home so it will help me get some more rest. And honestly, it's pretty sweet here. They feed me and bring me snacks (including M&Ms this afternoon, and I seriously wanted to hug the lady who brought them) and pain meds and I get a Mommy Massage tomorrow.
post #2 of 19
CONGRATS!! :
post #3 of 19
Congratulations!


Mommy massages should be included with delivery fees. haha. That sounds so nice!
post #4 of 19
Big, big congratulations!!!!! And thank you for sharing your story--your instincts and intuition really shone through, and inspire me to keep following mine.

Kathleen
42 weeks tomorrow!
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Oh, Amie, I'm so, so happy Willa is here and you are both okay!!! Congratulations!! You amaze me with your attitude. You know, it is women like you in my life that inspired me to make sure I took my birth into my own hands. We have to roll with the punches and adjust our plans to the situation, which is exactly what you did. I'm so amazed and proud of you. Seriously. And I'm incredibly happy to hear that everything turned out to be the very best it could have. Happy Birthday Willa!! Damn. I'm all teary now. You know how I feel about her name, and I'm just so happy for you all.
post #6 of 19
Congrats! :

Mine was born at 42 + 1, too.
post #7 of 19
Congratulations! : I'm so glad you ended up with a good hospital experience...I did too and was very pleasantly surprised.
post #8 of 19
HEY! how have you typed this already? did they bring you a laptop?
(sorry, this is the best friend IRL. nosy as always).

I can't tell you how excited/relieved I've felt since we talked and I knew Willa was here safe and sound. I'm DYING for pictures. Can't you materialize/upload them from the hospital too? Maybe you can scan that last U/S while you're there too.

For those of you who don't know, I've suspected that Amie's three girls have a psychic pact between them to give her EVERY possible pregnancy/birth experience so she can be the most experienced doula ever. This includes birth center, home birth, and hospital birth, GBS positive and negative, breech concerns, early and overdue. From here on out, if you have a question about something, just PM AmieV. She's been there, done that, and bought the T-shirt.

Sorry I'm such a nerd. I'm SO HAPPY! YAY WILLA! :

XOXO
B
post #9 of 19
congrats, mama!! : enjoy your babymoon
post #10 of 19
Congrats mama!!! Enjoy your babymoon!!
post #11 of 19
Welcome Willa!

Congtats, AmieV - what an amazing story!
post #12 of 19
Congratulations!! ::: Our babies came the same day!
post #13 of 19
awesome news!!! congrats, mama! Enjoy your babymoon!
post #14 of 19
Not in your DDC, popping in from Jan. But I am so happy for you, congatulations! ::: Oh, I love baby girls! Have to say I also LOVE the name Willa, absolutely gorgeous, don't worry, I'm having a boy, I won't steal her name. But it's SO pretty. Get your rest and enjoy your new daughter. PS That is a cool birthday too!
post #15 of 19
Congrats! I'm checking into that hospital in the future, b/c I want a massage after birth as well.

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I've never ever felt pain like that with either of my two labors, it was sharp and burning and BETWEEN contractions.
You said her head was asynclinic, but do you happen to know if she was also posterior? I had that same pain between contractions (though, b/c I am a vbac, I was worried I was having a UR) and maybe that was part of the pain I was having? Mine came out posterior so that probably played a big part in my pain, but maybe he was asynclinic for some time as well.
post #16 of 19
Congratulations! :
post #17 of 19
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they have been treating us great. We are staying 48 hours because that's how long they like to observe 42+ week babies (dumb) but we're going along with it because I have a 2 and 4 yo at home so it will help me get some more rest. And honestly, it's pretty sweet here. They feed me and bring me snacks (including M&Ms this afternoon, and I seriously wanted to hug the lady who brought them) and pain meds and I get a Mommy Massage tomorrow.
Congratulations, and I am so happy the hospital is treating you well! You might want to send a thank you card, since they did so well! I am happy your midwife was able to catch! That was cool! I guess for a hospital birth, you did great! I wish more ladies had that good of an experience there, they might not want to birth at home so much! Congrats again on your big girl!
post #18 of 19
Not in your DDC but wanted to say congrats anyway! :
Sorry you didn't exactly get the birth you wanted but I'm glad they're treating you well! If our hospital was like that, I wouldn't mind too much either!
post #19 of 19
congratulations! :
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