I don't think it's about your dd and sd. I think this is about your dh. If he loves you he should be kind to and about your daughter. The fact that he has been so snide and insensitive speaks volumes. He should never, ever treat your daughter that way, even if it's behind closed doors. It's destructive to your dd and dsd alike. And to your marriage. I'm not sure I'd give him a shot at counseling. He'd have to show up at the door and present a very strong, convincing case as to what he has to offer and how he is going to improve. And I would not return until I had seen some long-term evidence of that.
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1/31/09 at 10:50pm