When I got pregnant with my son (highschool boyfriend), it was just assumed that I would circ my son, because everyone I knew was, so it didn't really come up, it was just DONE.
I didn't discuss it with my Husband (married 4 years, dating 4 years before that, probably won't have any more kids, but I can always hope) before we married or before we dated, because I didn't really know all the details. I knew more than I did 13 years ago when my son was born, but not exactly how much damage it does. In all honesty, if I'd had a son 3 or 4 years ago, he probably would have been circed because of his brother and Dad and I would have thought insisting on general anesthesia and thought that would take care of it.
: And then I found MDC... Anyways, my Hubby doesn't want any more kids, so it's probably a moot point, but I've told him, if, for some reason we ever have a son, there will be no circing. Over my dead body!