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post #1 of 8
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Any ideas as the best way to go about this? His room faces the street and then on to the forest.

I really need to do something as DS has terrible nightmares. We've had problems where he won't wake up (although he looks like he is) and he's screaming and crying for me even though I'm holding him. It's heartbreaking.

He also talks about the lions and owls that scare him. Any insight to this?
post #2 of 8
Poor little guy!

This might sound like a strange question, but does he drink milk before bed? The only reason I ask is because a good friend of mine found out that milk of all things was causing her son to have horrific night terrors. She cut out the milk after lunch and he was fine.

As for cleansing, do you meditate at all? If this was me, this is what I would do...

First see if there is anything dietary wise that might be at play and if so remove it.

When he is out of the house, I would light an incense stick in his room (sage or sage/cedar incense helps me focus), get myself into a nice meditative state and from there envision his room full of a powerful, but gentle white and purple light. I would ask the Universe/Angels/God etc to help cleanse his room and to keep it filled with a beautiful white positive light.

Every night before *I* went to bed I would envision a bubble of protection around his room (well around the whole house actually, but specifically his room).

White light around the 'bubble' for cleansing and purple for protection against unwanted spirits (however good or not so good they might be the poor little guy just needs some sleep right now).

As for the Lion and the Owl, I personally don't get the sense of any negativity or evil per se going on. I feel more that they are just some animal spirit guides and he is too young to understand and well, they're scary.

While cleansing I would ask my guides to help watch over him while he sleeps and to kindly ask the animal spirits to stay away for the time being.

Has someone been really sick in your family?

HTH!

~L.
post #3 of 8
Hugs mama!

It does sound like it could be night terrors (there's info here, and it's a sleep disorder completely seperate from traditional nightmares that may have nothing to do with the energies of the room). I'm totally on board with cleansing and warding a child's room, but if that doesn't help you might look into night terror treatment as well.

I had a similar question about a year ago... many of DH's female relatives are pretty active mediums and it seems like dd2 may be following in that path. She'd see things and get upset but not have the words to explain. I got a lot of great advice here and from DH's family. So I hope some of this info helps you too!

For cleansing I like to double or triple up my normal chores. So instead of cleaning with plain soap/water I might add salt and herbs to the water to cleanse on a spiritual level at the same time. For deep cleansing I'd first open the windows and doors and make plenty of noise in the room... your little one might enjoy this too! Bang on pot lids, clap hands, stamp feet, ring bells and basically make a big ruckus. Stir up the energies and shoo them out the windows. Then sprinkle salt and herbs (I like rosemary) on carpets and vacuum it up, mop exposed floors with a salt water/herb blend, wipe down the walls with a cloth spritzed with the same salt/herb mix, wash the windows, wipe the light bulb/fixture. And don't forget closets and under the bed and corners... places where energy can puddle/stagnate since there isn't a lot of activity.

After the actual cleansing I like to put up wards. I light a candle and shine the light into every corner and space in the room. Leaving the candle burning I use a little essentil oil (you can use anything really, but I think the smell helps) to seal the doors, windows, outlets, computer screen, tv/radio, any entrance to the room. (sealing... some people draw a tiny rune or symbol, others just swipe the oil on with a finger). I visualize peace/comfort/rest filling the space the way the candlelight fills it, and the way the scent of the oil fills it.

Overall, I think involving your little one as much as he is comfortable will help since he is the one who needs to feel secure in the space. So perhaps explain that the noise making is getting rid of the sludgy energy and making the space more exciting. And then perhaps let him splash some of the salt/herb water around or wipe the walls he can reach. If he's old enough he might carry the candle later, or you could add a bell or incense (scent he likes) to that step and let him ring the bell or waft the incense around.

Finally, he may want to make a special item to sleep with. I remember when I was little I had many many nightmares about rats... I eventually sewed up a little cat (stuffed with rice, hops, and lavender) to keep away the dream rats and it worked! So perhaps he'd like to draw a picture of a "protector", or make a small figure he could hold, or write a bedtime story that makes him feel protected or secure. There are also meditation cds written for children and using one before bed might also help him process the day and lead to a more peaceful sleep. Or you could guide him on a meditation journey to explore the animals he has mentioned, only in a non-threatening manner where he is in control.

Good luck! Hope your little sleeps peacefully soon!
post #4 of 8
Thread Starter 
Thank you both very much.

I'm going to get to work ASAP. I'm new to mediation and spirits. But with living near to a forest I definately feel a lot more. It puts some abilities I had as a child into prospective.

I love the idea of using rosemary as it is something DS and I planted in our very small garden. Sounds like somethign I'd like to use in all my cleaning. Can you overuse it?

As to the question about someone being really sick in the family, last year my DH battled liver cancer. He's cancer free now. But it was not a pretty battle. And now my MIL has cancer as well. We're in the process of finding out exactly where, so far just one lympnod. My mother is being tested for cervical cancer.
post #5 of 8
Hi Neva,
I agree with what everyone else has mentioned, but also wanted to mention that my ds started having night terrors and I tracked it down to a sensitivity to carrots! It took a while to figure it out, but now that he is older, it is undeniable as he is able to tell me about his dreams and he only has bad nightmares or night terrors when he accidentally eats something with carrot.

As for cleansing, I like to use sage followed by sweetgrass. I find that laying quartz crystals on our windowsills (one facing each direction) is also nice.
post #6 of 8
Thread Starter 
I had never thought about his diet affecting his dreams.

We have had vega testing done and he is sensitive to raisins, tomatoes and wheat. But we do mostly stay away from those. I'll have to make sure I'm using rice flour noodles for him more often.

Quartz crystals is an awesome idea as well. There is a new shop I'd like to check out in the neighbouring town. I'll take DS and let him pick out his own. The shop here has a negitive sick feeling energy to it.
post #7 of 8
I really like all of these ideas. I may start using some of them in my room!

DD used to have lots of nightmares, then we started a little ritual that we do right before lights out: I trace a star on her forehead three times and say, "Jellybean dreams for Sofia" with each star. She started doing that for me too (apparently Mommies need marshmallow dreams).
post #8 of 8
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I really like all of these ideas. I may start using some of them in my room!

DD used to have lots of nightmares, then we started a little ritual that we do right before lights out: I trace a star on her forehead three times and say, "Jellybean dreams for Sofia" with each star. She started doing that for me too (apparently Mommies need marshmallow dreams).
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