Help! Complicated problem... Edited for privacy

[NoliMum]

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Edited by me for privacy. I have made some "real life" friends on MDC, so I've decided not to post about personal relationships here anymore.

[ladida1977]

Whether or not you should be mad .. is based on what the "rules" were. Did you state that you would always have to be together when anything happened? If not.. then you probably do not have the right to be mad. Would you have made out with a friend if he wasnt there? Plus.. you getting upset could mean that you arent ready for an open relationship. A lot of people can make an open relationship work.. but most cant. I know just from threesome experiences that .. it can be a really bad situation...if its not something you are really ready for.

[NoliMum]

Ladida thanks for your thoughtful reply. I was going to answer several days ago, but my computer time has been sporadic.

Anyway, I cooled off and we had a loooong talk the next evening. We had some good, honest communication. Things are better.

[cjuniverse]

Your feelings are always okay, mami. They are always valid.

It looks like the two of you are not on the same page as far as what you want out of partnership. Time for a talk.

[NoliMum]

Thanks mamas for your support. I'm going to take my post down though for privacy reasons.