Well, would anyone who's read any of the books in question like to respond to either of these two questions:
1) Do you think Jane, being who she was at 18, would inevitably be attracted to an older man?
2) What is the difference between Jane's attraction to an older man (Rochester) and Dorothea's attraction to an older man (Casaubon)?
(Bonus Question for Wuthering Heights
fans: How sexual or otherwise do you consider the "attraction" between Heathcliff and Cathy?)
There, starting off with sexual love questions--should appeal to everyone!
Come one, come all, and join in!