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I am a total hypocrite... UPDATE- Picture Post #11

post #1 of 16
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So.... I am total hypocrite.

We are not to the letter followers of Waldorf but we have decided to surround our little on (age 3) with open-ended toys of natural materials. We don't do tv in our house (at least for DD). I feel very strongly about the ugliness of marketing to children and we don't do commercial characters or any toy that's designed to sell another toy. I am very concerned with nurturing creativity and open play scenarios. We do use recorded music in our house--and lots of it (the not so Waldorf part of our house). One of the CDs we recently got from the library was school house rock. We already love the Jack Johnson 'Reduce, Reuse Recycle' remake of 'Three is a Magic Number" so I wanted her to hear the 'original' DH and I grew up with....
Well, our little one LOVES the Interplanet Janet song also on the CD. We ALL have been singing it for days. Oh, there's never been a planet Janet hasn't seen...

Which brings me to the hypocrite part...

I had a flash in the shower tonight that I could needle felt her a set of planets and sew her a Janet out of felt. I got out the shower and quickly found an image of her online. I was almost giddy looking at her--just how I remembered. I went and got out felt to match the colors. Then it hit me. DD doesn't have an image to go with Janet---it's me that does. And won't giving her the School House Rock Janet force her to see it our way??? Isn't that bad? I have gone back and forth in my head rationalizing that a little felt doll that's part rocket and part girl isn't trying to sell her anything or it isn't forcing her to only play in a way she seen on television... but it's really just me rationalizing because I want a little Janet. Maybe I'll sew the darn thing for me to fly around and sing....

But somewhere out in space,
There's another shining face
That you might see some night up in the sky.
Interplanet Janet, she's a galaxy girl...
post #2 of 16
I'll be following this thread with interest. I'm always confused as to what really constitutes a "character." I mean, ds2 LOVES Beatrix Potter stories, and as his name is Samuel he adores acting out the story of Samuel Whiskers. So is this bad because it "forces" him to play a single way?

He does so adore trying to make a roly poly pudding.
post #3 of 16
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Originally Posted by operamommy View Post
I'll be following this thread with interest. I'm always confused as to what really constitutes a "character." I mean, ds2 LOVES Beatrix Potter stories, and as his name is Samuel he adores acting out the story of Samuel Whiskers. So is this bad because it "forces" him to play a single way?

He does so adore trying to make a roly poly pudding.
I think what your son does is great. Again not a purist here--as many would say that's why you have books without text--so the story can be molded into various different stories.

DD often acts our the stories form her books--but sometimes she does it herself, sometimes it's her dolls, sometimes it's her animal figures. I think that is just fine. I think the pigeon hole part comes from giving her a specific thing that is to act a specific way. Like a Thomas the train that is used just to tell the story from the book or show...

Right now I don't know what she sees in her head when she hears the Janet song... so I feel bad about showing her what she looks like...
post #4 of 16
I think that when it gets to this level of tortured self-questioning and doubt over something you know your lo would enjoy, then your dedication to Waldorf is getting unhealthy. Relax and sew her the felt Janet.
post #5 of 16
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I think that when it gets to this level of tortured self-questioning and doubt over something you know your lo would enjoy, then your dedication to Waldorf is getting unhealthy. Relax and sew her the felt Janet.
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Right on!
post #6 of 16
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Originally Posted by zinemama View Post
I think that when it gets to this level of tortured self-questioning and doubt over something you know your lo would enjoy, then your dedication to Waldorf is getting unhealthy. Relax and sew her the felt Janet.
Ditto!

We are very involved in Waldorf and consider ourselves a dedicated Waldorf family and I'd be sewing that Janet too (though I actually have no idea who that is LOL!)

My daughter went through this period of loving Cat in the Hat which meant almost two years of obsessing about it and creating this whole world that had nothing to do with the actual Cat in the Hat. She had a whole cast of characters that she had made up which were talked about on a daily basis. Anyways, one of them was Loaf. Loaf was a cat that was also a loaf of bread. I had a full description which I heard for months on end. So one night I made a felt Loaf and put it on her dresser while she was asleep one night.

When she woke up in the morning I heard her shout "How did Loaf get in here!" and it was the best thing ever.

I seriously doubt that you are going to damage your child in any way by making her a felt doll. Other's may differ but I say, go for what feels good to you.
post #7 of 16
I agree with the pp's! Plus, maybe you could just make it a "generalized" Janet so that when she is on to something else, she can then be that person.

Happy Felting momma!
post #8 of 16
I'm lurking here, but just wanted to say that I listen to Schoolhouse Rock in my car even when my kids aren't with me. We aren't a Waldorf family (we do Montessori) and I have to say that the video is one of their favorites. I love the nostalgia and my kids are learning about Presidents and planets and electricity!
post #9 of 16
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Okay... I am going to just make her! I'll post a picture when she's done!
post #10 of 16
I'm glad you're going to sew your little Interplanet Janet!

I just wanted to add that in "Heaven on Earth", the author talks about sharing our childhood memories with our children. I think that by sewing her this little doll you are sharing such a beautiful part of your childhood memories with your daughter, and that is something she will remember. She might create a whole new world around Janet!
post #11 of 16
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Here is a picture of Janet....

http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3040/...a4a3095f64.jpg

And for those of you want a refresher course...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PfPEv...ext=1&index=33
post #12 of 16
Janet is COOL! What a great doll!

Mrs B
post #13 of 16
i love it!!!
post #14 of 16
GAHHHHHH!!! I LOVE IT! Oh, you should sell them on Etsy with all the planets!
post #15 of 16
Thanks for the link. The comments for Conjunction Junction were very interesting to read.
post #16 of 16
Wow! fabulous job!
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