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Sorry this is long....

DD was in a preschool from September to December. It cost us $100 a month for 3 days a week from 12 to 2:15. The preschool was sponsored by the church it was located in. Sadly, the church elders decided to no longer support the preschool and it closed its doors with very little warning.

DD was heartbroken, she loves school, loved her teachers, and loved the interaction with the other kids. 90% of the other kids were able to get in at another preschool at another church. For whatever reason, we were told there were no more open spots when I called.

I am not religious, and this has yet again reinforced my negative opinion of churches and their bureaucracy. I finally found a non-religion affiliated program for DD and have been taking her weekly. She loves it and I love it. They are opening a drop-off preschool in February and I have already registered DD to start in it. BUT, it is expensive. Since there is no financial backing from a church or any other sponsor, the tuition is totally on the parents, and will be about $300 a month. My thinking is, at least this way, they won't close their doors due to lack of funding or anything, there is no "higher up" that will pull their funding, etc.

I just got a call from a friend that another church has a preschool program, $85 a month, same hours as the new one we are going to. BUT, I am hesitant to place DD in another program that is dependent on a church's goodwill. I've had two fail us already, and I don't want her heartbroken again. DP of course is going to want to save money and put her in the less expensive option, despite my reservations.

What would you do? I am leaning towards to more expensive program, though it means cutting back on a few things to afford it. I need the break, we live in a very rural area and DD has no one to play with here. She is bored out of her mind, stuck in the house for days at a time due to the weather, and she needs to get out. I just don't know which one to choose.
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Hmmm... I guess I'd look at the merits of the programs themselves. What is their philosophy? Do you like the "feel" of the school? The teachers? The discipline policy? Certainly the fact that your DD already likes the program she's in would count for something.

I'm not religious, and a church-based preschool wouldn't be an option for us. Given the economy, though, I think your fears of another program folding are justified.

Good luck in your decision.
-e
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I guess I would have to research the church a little more. We pay $65/mo. for a church preschool, 5 hours per week, and we all love it. It is worth every penny. But $300? No way! I would be going to the church to meet the teachers, look around, find out how many years they have been doing preschool, etc. If I just totally got a bad vibe about it, then no I wouldn't send my child there, but there is no way that our family could justify $300/mo. just for preschool. You asked what I would do... In that case, I guess I'd be figuring out Plan C.
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Just becuase the church ones closed without warning does NOT mean a more expensive one won't. We've had 3 DAYCARES close with zero warning. i'm talking parents standing at the doors at 6am to drop their kids off & either a note on the door saying they're closed or no note at all. Sometimes there's been a teacher standing there too who didn't know it was closing.

In the US economy I'd expect it to be happening more & more often & not just with daycare centers or playschool.

The other church may have been rightfully full. Here there is 1 playschool that has openings. Every other playschool was full in September with no openings until next September. Some of them are full the day of spring registration. They cannot open more spots due to insurance & teacher:child ratios.

Check out the program & base your decision on the program offered, not on what 1 school has done.
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