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post #21 of 25
Since there is still time before the twins come, maybe you can tell DD that she can sleep with you every night for X number of days, make one of those construction paper loop things to tear off and count the days, and once the days are done she gets a reward when she stays in her bed. She has a tangible way to keep track of time, and knows she's being kicked out of bed because the twins are so close, not because they'll be here eventually.
When I was little we had fold-up foam "futons" that fit in a closet but folded out to about the size of a single bed. We each had one color that was ours, and if we got permission, we could sleep on one of those wherever we wanted, even in a tent in the backyard some nights or in the bathtub (as a PP mentioned). Here's an example, though I'm sure you can find similar much cheaper: http://www.foamorder.com/trifolds.html . Really though, I spent many nights with my older sister, I was always one that needed company to sleep.
post #22 of 25
You've gotten some good suggestions, but thought I'd ask

Does she like her room & bed? Is the bigger issue wanting to be with you or NOT wanting to be in her room? It's worth investigating.

And also -- if you are open to the idea of her continuing to cosleep, but not sure how to work it w/ the twins - I would suggest looking into the Arm's Reach cosleeper (The original & universal are both equipped to handle twins) and then putting your dd in the middle (between you & DH). She has had you to herself for 6 years and is about to get a double whammy in the sibling department. Having her sleep w/ you guys at night might go a long way towards peace during daytime hours too.
post #23 of 25
Thread Starter 

This issue has been solved! :)

This issue has been solved. My husband and I moved upstairs to be on the same floor with my daughter. My daughter has been sleeping in her room all week this week. It looks like she just wanted to be able to see us. Everyone is happy! Thank you all for your support and suggestions.
post #24 of 25
Yay! Glad you found a solution, just wanted to add my congratulations!
post #25 of 25
Thread Starter 
Thank you!
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