I have a million things swarming my brain. I'm a little in denial and think I will be for a while still. How fast do I have to act to get a homebirth midwife around here?
Do i have to start calling right now? Can I wait until this sinks in a bit for me or do I have to jump right on it?
Also, I'm 95% sure my insurance won't cover HB, and I'm seriously considering duel care until at least my 20w US. ANyone know of a home birth friendly CNM? I'd really rather not set food in an OB's office, but if there is a home birth friendly OB who is *female* I'd consider it. I don't want to deceive a CNM into thinking I'm going to the hossy, I'd like to be upfront and honest about it. I'm in Lehi and would like someone in Northern UT county or SO. SL county.
I'm in a total cloud, same as with DS. Completely unexpected, it took a good 5 mos for it to feel real with DS. I expect I need to contact a midwife before then, but...
and where in the world is a good, comprehensive list of midwives along the wasatch front? i've google and only come up with individual sites... anyone?
Thanks for the help!