how about taking him out to eat before or after your talk? if you can find a way to not make it seem like some kind of buttering up. I think privacy trumps the need to go out personally, so he can feel comfortable expressing himself honestly in response. or maybe you can take him out for lunch on a different day. or, the car ride idea is good - you could pick up take out while you are out.
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2/14/09 at 10:13pm








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