next time you see that guy...take every bit of courage you can muster and straight up say " I'm going to tell you this right now , I dont appreciate your crappy bedside manner for one thing bro and second I dont appreciate your scare tactics and outright rude behavior. I am paying you hard earned money, so at least have some respect." I wouldnt put up with that, I would tell that guy where to go. I've had to tell a doctor something similar to that before and wouldnt hesitate to do it again. It's just not ok for him to do that.
I reported the one I saw and he even went as far as to try to call my husband at our home to talk to him
...yeah that didnt work out the way the guy had planned and my husbands colonel (the guy who was in charge of my dh in the army at the time) called this doctor and was like I dont think so, you will never treat my soldiers wife like that ever again and if you do you will be reprimanded if I have to see to it myself (HA!). Every time I think any of them are treating me with disrespect, I report them to a patient rep (not sure how it works as far as you being a civilian though) or handle it myself and say what I have to say. This makes me angry for you, seriously you have every right to be outraged. 
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I reported the one I saw and he even went as far as to try to call my husband at our home to talk to him
...yeah that didnt work out the way the guy had planned and my husbands colonel (the guy who was in charge of my dh in the army at the time) called this doctor and was like I dont think so, you will never treat my soldiers wife like that ever again and if you do you will be reprimanded if I have to see to it myself (HA!). Every time I think any of them are treating me with disrespect, I report them to a patient rep (not sure how it works as far as you being a civilian though) or handle it myself and say what I have to say. This makes me angry for you, seriously you have every right to be outraged. :
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